I always thought I wouldnt have to change for no one, but my current boyfriend doenst accept my bisexuality. He stated it would be cheating if you slept with another women while we are together. I asked him would he do a threesome and he stated well she would have to be beautiful. Doesnt that mean he contradicted himself? Granted I was selfish when I stated no you cant sleep with her only me you can only watch. So ending the converstation was around the terms of you cant have your cake and eat it too.
2007-03-24 11:32:16 · 27 answers · asked by lyric_8273 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not cheating if he knows about it and it's just for sex, not further.
he may call it cheating because he doesn't agree with it but that's part of your life.
he either has to except it or not, don't cut yourself short or you will regret it and hold it against him.
2007-03-24 11:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by myddad 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doing anything with anyone other than your significant other while in a relationship is cheating.
Bisexuality does not give you an excuse to cheat. It's just a type of sexuality, not some reason behind doing things with other people.
2007-03-24 11:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by rockinfreakapotamus 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r cheating if u r bisexual and r in a relationship with someone who isn't bi
cuz u wanna have sex with a male and female
the other person wants sex with the opposite sex
so he would want to have a threesome which means he cheats with u and the other person at the same time so u both r rong and its time u change ur ways straight or lesbo
2007-03-24 11:37:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is expecting exclusivity, then yes, you would give up all lovers other than him, whether male or female. While many men are turned on by the idea of 3some, most men do not actually want to have one.
If you are more sexually adventurous(sp?), consider finding another boyfriend who has the same interests. You will be happier.
2007-03-24 11:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by CarbonDated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think cheating is cheating.....you are either exclusive, boyfriend/girlfriend, if that is what both of you want, or you are cheating. It doesnt matter what sex the other person is. How would you feel if he asked you if he could sleep with someone else? He wants to be exclusive with you, if you dont want that, let him go to someone that deserves that kind of commitment.
2007-03-24 12:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by lisa k 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did you tell your bf that you were when you first got together? if so then he had to know that you wouldnt want to stop. him judging wether she is beautiful or not is wrong. cheating is cheating no matter what either one is like. it would be wrong in my opinion for you to sleep with her if you are suppose to be his and some couples like 3 somes and some dont. guess to me anyway that you look at it ---cheating is cheating. you dont deserve this and he dosent either. if you are suppose to be his girlfriend then be his girlfriend and dont mess around make it work. if you are not sure what you want then dont commit to a realtionship.
good luck
2007-03-24 11:40:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what gives you the rightto bang other chicks if he can't ?
Yes it would be cheating to sleep with chicks behind his back. If he slept with another girl behind your back you would call it cheating. No matter if it's a man or woman it's still cheating.
If he can't bang the other chick then neither should you.
2007-03-24 11:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be cheating if you wanted to sleep with another woman while with him. It'd be like sleeping with another man.
As for the threesome thing I think it's a bit off the meter. I can see the reason he wants it to be a beautiful woman but are you willing to share him with her too?
2007-03-24 11:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, you must give up all other desires to be with another person while in this relationship, whether it is a man or woman. If you want to be with someone else, just break up with him. its for the best. and my thoughts on the 3some is this: i think you'd be setting yourself up for disaster... if in fact you love this guy then you should never do this. u will confuse things. or he might up and dump you for the other chick.... that would really suck. be careful! i think you should be single if u cant handle being monogomous
2007-03-24 11:38:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you really like the guy then you should just give up being bi for the mean time but i honestly have never met a guy who didnt want a bisexual girlfriend if i were a guy i wouldnt exactly consiter it cheating
2007-03-24 11:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by stars52006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready to give it up.... why would you get married? Isn't marriage suppose to be a committed sort of thing?
At some point in your life..... you will have to decide what you are..... an active bisexual or a married woman. The choice will be yours.
2007-03-24 11:36:36 · answer #11 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋