yesterday i was making out with this guy that has liked me for awile, we were high, so i was making all the 1st moves, we made out sooo much, and i was on top of him, and my friend said i were practically doing eachother with cloths on.
he really liked me, and thought i was beautiful and made that aware to me, he even said he loved me.
his friend said that wen they were walking home last night after we made out, he was sooo happy, and he kept tellin his friend that i was a really good kisser, he really likes me, and that i am soo beautiful.....
2day it was awkward talkin to him on the phone,
what do u think he thinks of me now? could his feelings have changed? has he lost respect for me? is he over me?
HELP!!!!! mature answers please, thank you.
2007-03-24 11:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by cus i forgot my name...? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want, mature, honest answers? If so, then here is mine. First, stop getting high, it is not realistic to think he was truly liking YOU personally. I believe he liked WHAT he was doing. Have some self-respect. Do you have such a low opinion, of yourself, that you need to be intimate with a guy in order for them to like you, or think that you are pretty? Have some self-esteem, being loose, making All the first moves, is not a quality that exhibits strong morals, strong character, and will not do anything positive for your reputation. I strongly feel you want attention desperately, and want to be liked. However, your poor choice of actions is not the way to proceed. You need to re-think your behavior. If you are asking questions: could his feelings have changed?, has he lost respect for me?, and is he over me?, I think you already have doubts about your actions, and know what you did is inappropriate behavior.
2007-04-01 05:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You want mature answers, but yet you're the one who got high and thinks a guy likes you because you made out. He liked make out session - not you. Right now, he probably thinks you're easy or can't wait until you guys get high again so he can see what else you can get from you. He is the last person you should be worrying about. You should have respected yourself more than to get in a situation like that. You don't know what could have happened.
2007-04-01 16:05:57 · answer #2 · answered by Cambrianna S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's a mature answer: don't do anything with someone while you are high that you wouldn't EASILY do with them when you were not high.
He was high. You were practically 'doing it' with him on top of him with an audience (your friend) - is that a freakin' porn movie in the making or what?
That is how he remembers it too!
Now, you're talking to him as if he should respect you. Would he respect you if he took you to the movies and you said, 'Hey, baby, let's put on a show for the people in the front row' and hiked up your skirt, jumped in his lap and started making out with him stone cold sober?
Actually, I don't think he would respect you for that. I think he would do something like that with someone whose name he found on the bathroom wall, 'For a good time, call....'
Listen to yourself - you sound like doing everything you say you did, you set the stage for a guy to say, 'I love you' and mean it. You don't give guys credit for having a lot of self-respect and sense.
You're a good kisser. I hope he remembers that the next time he gets drunk or high. Think about yourself and what you do. Does it make you more or less attractive to guys and if so, are they the kind of guys who DID get your number off the bathroom wall?
Get back on track, clean up your act.
2007-04-01 15:50:33 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Key statement in your question, "we were high." He does not know what he wants neither of you were in the right frame of mind if you were high. He probably does not even remember telling his friend any of what you mentioned on that night. The awkward conversation should have given you that clue.
2007-04-01 00:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by someadvice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, to get mature answers.....I suggest you grow up and mature a little bit yourself. Get over yourself. With that said, maybe he's feeling a bit shy after all that heavy petting, or maybe he thinks you're too easy.
2007-03-24 18:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how can i answer maturely after u sed u made out so much, u were on top of him, u were doin each other w/clothes, and u were high
sounds real mature
2007-04-01 18:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, he still likes you, meet again and have a really long makeout session and then do a lapdance on him and then have sex, then the relationship would be whole.
2007-03-24 18:32:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋