How can I make them accept me?
2007-03-24 11:18:17 · 17 answers · asked by Brandy Belle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. Try to ignore them if they are mean or whatever. Do nice things for anyone wh is warming to you.
2007-03-24 11:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Gone fishin' 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it funny that allllll the women in his family hates you. What are you doing? Well to be honest with you some people rather people marry they'll own color. You can't make anyone except you. I mean you except me or you don't, the only thing you can really do is respect people and hope they respect you in return. But if the guy really Loves you and you really Love him it will work out but it won't be easy. Its ashame people are still judging folks by they're color. I always say the skin doesn't do anything its just a covering. Its the heart respect all people and hopefully you can change they're heart.
2007-03-24 11:27:51 · answer #2 · answered by mitteycole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your young, they probably feel you are going to have/cause problems ahead, and no-one wants their family member to go through that. Depending on what part of the country you live in, well that may have a lot to do with it. If you really want to be with him, just be yourself, be kind and patient, and hopefully they will accept you after a period of time when they can see nothing too terrible will come of it. Good luck!
2007-03-24 11:22:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that takes a long time. You just have to make them believe that race isn't an issue yet try not to hard to win them over. If they can't accept it it is their issue not yours. Their limiting beliefs are hard to change but all you can do is be a good person around the family.
I had an ex's mother that didnt care for me based on race but
after awhile she got used to me and finally came to accept it even thought she preferred differently.
2007-03-24 11:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by JAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok lets be open all the doors and tell the truth. Do you really think they would have these issues if you were black??????
NO. Lets tell the truth here. They dont like you because you are white period. You dont have anything in common with them. YOU ARE DIFFERENT. If you think you really love your boyfriend stick with him. Dont let them change your mind. Be nice to them. Dont be mean dont let them bring you down to that level.
2007-03-24 11:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by mixology_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot MAKE anyone accept you. Either they like you for you or they don't. Not everyone is going to like you. Didn't your parents teach you this?
2007-03-27 15:01:33 · answer #6 · answered by mochasister 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force people to like you but what you can do is show his family that what you two have is real, and your not going anywhere.
2007-03-24 11:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by J Vize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't. Give them time! do not force your self on them it will make it worse. But i am sure it is not cause ur white I mean it is 2007!
2007-03-24 13:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can,t. black females hate seeing black men with white girls. they even would go as far as to fight you. i recommend staying away from them.
2007-03-24 11:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Riddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not given them any reason to hate you, it could be that they are just racists.
2007-03-24 11:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋