just try to put your feelings aside for this person, and try to talk to them, try to get to know them. Just dont be an a$$ around her, but just be friendly
I have problems talking to the girl I have a crush on, I just get so nervous. But in the end, I feel better talking to her, I feel releaved.
Good Luck my friend
Just be nice, and try to have a good time, then it will just go from there
2007-03-24 11:21:07
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answered by I am Noodles! 3
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Your hands are sweaty, your heart is thumping and you're breathing fast... the tell-tale signs you're about to phone/talk your crush!
Pretty much every girl has experienced crush-related talking panic.
*Control Your Voice
How do you convince your crush you're fabulous over talking or on the phone? Your voice has a lot to do with it. Focus on speaking s-l-o-w-l-y. If you're nervous, you will naturally talk faster, so remind yourself to slow it down. Use pauses to put on the brakes if you catch yourself racing, or rambling. Speak clearly and don't whisper or yell. Of course, you have to be you - and if that's someone who talks a mile a minute, go ahead and do that! Just keep in mind that you'll be most impressive if he senses you are confident.
**Ask Him Questions
Yep, it's One of my favorite trick - asking open-ended questions. You want the things you say to lead to further conversation, so ask him questions that won't just prompt one-word, "yes" or "no," answers. For example, if you he tells you he's helping his dad fix the family car this weekend, you could ask him, "How did you learn to do that?" Or, "What other fixit stuff do you know how to do?"
Seasonal stuff - holidays, events, school breaks - are great topics to ask questions about. Whatever time of year it is, there's probably a holiday nearby. For instance, in October, you might ask him what he's doing for Halloween. February is a perfect excuse to find out what he thinks about Valentine's Day. And so on! I know those things have pasted but u get the flow.
***Hush Up and Listen
Remember, the phone/talking goes two-ways. When the convo is cooking along, make sure you pause sometimes to let your crush talk. When you ask a question, don't rush to ask another one until you're sure he's finished answering. If you're lucky, he'll talk a lot and you'll find out all about him... and have less pressure to keep things going.
Saying Bye
When you feel the conversation wrapping up, tell your crush, "It was nice talking to you" or sumthing like tat and say goodbye. End the call/talking before you run out of things to say. One of you can always talk again tomorrow!
If u ever need anything else email @: godsbaby42@yahoo.com
*Much Love* **God Bless**
2007-03-24 18:31:07
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answered by Tell Mariee 7
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Make a funny observation. Smile. Talk to them about school. Show your common interests. Don't be scared, because we are all the same and I bet whomever this someone is might be scared to talk to you.
2007-03-24 18:23:41
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answered by love 5
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write her a note give it to her saying meet me after school love ? then ask her out.
2007-03-24 18:21:31
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answered by crk112 1
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I start with "hi" then hang out with her if she dont want u around her you will find out.......if she hangs around u ask her to be friends
2007-03-24 18:20:44
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answered by Mike S 1
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just start by saying "Hi, my name is (your name), [shake hands], listen, i have to tell you something important---i am in love with you, ever since i saw you, i want you to be mine, do u feel the same way? (kiss him/her passionately on lips)
2007-03-24 18:21:55
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answered by Anonymous
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do you know the person?!
if you dont introduce urself....
ask about them
just try to talk to him or her whenver u have a chance.. sit by them or talk to their friends..
2007-03-24 18:20:29
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answered by brighterthansunshine 1
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just be direct and go up and ask if they wanna hang out sometime
2007-03-24 18:19:27
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answered by Liz 3
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Hi, My name is______. Wanna play doctor?
2007-03-24 18:20:44
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answered by baldy 4
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hi how are you, its easy as one, two, three
2007-03-24 18:19:46
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answered by Tyler :) 2
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