lately my boyfriend has been acting realy strange. He has been saying he is to tired to see me and when i ask where he is going in general conversations he replies '' erm am just with the boys" and wont give me a real answer. why is he doing this. Does he not want to be with me or what is going on. pleeeeeeeeeese help !!!!!
2007-03-24 11:16:48 · 12 answers · asked by sensual 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me.. This sounds like a typical bloke who wants to have a bit more fun.. How long have you both been going out? I have some problems sometimes with my boyfriend where i just want some time with other people. We have a long distance relationship and it's hard but sometimes it feels he asks too much of me.. Try and sit down and talk to him. Don't get angry or annoyed at anything he says.. Be conversational and keep it flowing. He may slip out why he does the things he does even if he doesn't want to. Good luck. Take care of yourself xx
2007-03-24 12:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by charlotte a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your relationship has lost its spark? The best way to fix this is to get busy! Go out with your friends and do things that you enjoy doing..be happy! Show him how much fun you can have without him! Once he realizes how much you are enjoying yourself he will either want to spend more time with you or...I don't know. It just all depends on how he's feeling. Spice things up and you did have a life besides him. Men do not make the world go round...Women spend too much time revolving their whole lives around men! If he loves you he will want to spend his time with you and make an effort to see you. If he doesn't then..he is not that into you. I hope it works out.
2007-03-24 11:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't want to be with you - he would rather be with the boys. If I were you, I wouldn't contact him for a few days. If he doesn't ring at all, then you are dumped the quiet way. If he does ring, don't jump too high, just keep it cool and arrange a date a few days later as you are seeing your mates. Sometimes, you backing off makes them want to chase you. But my guess is that you should move on.
2007-03-24 11:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I don't know what your bf is like but he might be a jerk and seeing someone else. But before you get to that conclusion, does he work? I know that my bf's work really makes him tired and so he prefers just hanging out with some guys doing nothing than being with his gf who needs affection and kissing, and alot of energy ;) LOL so try to stay calm and just talk to him about it. He'll be honest with you and everything will work out fine!
2007-03-24 11:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Jakie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he's looking for a way out but doesnt have the guts to tell you, sorry
2007-03-24 11:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by keeley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry sensual but i think your boyfriend wants out of your relationship & hasn't the guts to admit it.He's hoping you'll get fed up & end it for him.
2007-03-24 15:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.....i think it is obvious that he is doing something that he doesnt want you to know about...unless that is just his personality....dont jump to conclusions though cause it may not be something bad just talk to him and ask him what has been going on with him lately and go from there
2007-03-24 11:20:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he doesn't want to be in the relationship anymore and is too immature to tell you
2007-03-24 11:20:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt want to be alone but he doesnt really want to be with you either.. once he finds a replacement you're gone...might as well finish him off right now!
2007-03-24 11:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him it sounds like he don't want u ,
plenty more fish in the sea good luck x
2007-03-24 11:24:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋