my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a week. yesterday we were talking about some things, and i told him i was intending on staying a virgin until i got married. i have always thought this way, and have very high standards and expectations on myself. he said that it was okay, but he also said just wait till we get to college (we are only 14). i asked me to hive him a head and i said no, i always thought i wouldn't do that till i was ALOT older and prob married, but its so hard to say no, i love him so much. should i get over my faith and just do it??? i love him, and i am scared he will leave if i don't, even though he said he wouldn't because he loved me! what should i do?
2007-03-24 11:10:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont listen to everyone whos saying 14 is too young to know what love is.
you are the only one who knows.
but if he did love you, he wouldnt pressure you to do anything ever.
losining your virginity is a big deal.
im 16 and im one of the few girls in my school who still has it and im proud of it, and guys respect me, because they know im not easy, and im not just a one night stand.
i love it.
but take it slow and let things come slowly, just stick to your values
2007-03-24 11:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by ampedrockstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not do it!! You are too young to be getting into something that serious with someone who will not be around in the next few years though probably months. You only have one virginity, and to give it up at so young an age is crazy!!
2007-03-24 11:21:40 · answer #2 · answered by Pierre Patelin Longshanks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO YOU ARE 14 LOVE IS NOT AN ISSUE!!!! I quite frankly don't care if you love him losing your virginity to him is irresponsible. Take you decision does he really feel the same about you?
2007-03-24 11:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by Indira B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 14 how can you love him? let alone know what love is?
2007-03-24 11:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Invictus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gurl he needs to slow his roll, its great that u dont want to do it until u r married and if he doesnt understand he is obviously in that reletionship 4 some ***
and gurl love is a strong word 4 ur age, seriously
not even love can pressure a person to do wat they dont wanna do , ok
2007-03-24 11:19:49 · answer #5 · answered by Gabby101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋