How do I know he likes me?

Question

H how do i know he likes me?
This guy i have known for a while what signs are there?

Well we have met up and been apart
and i sent him email at christmas telling him my feelings and he replied that he didnt know what to say and that we were friends etc but the last month hes been so chatty calling me baby and last monday he came out of his way to come down and see me he lives 5 hours away and then was going on up to his parents which is longer to get to from me,also when we walked to pub he tickled the back of my hair too

Answer 1

he treats you special ...... if he does like you i doubt you can't see the signs coz he definitely will exhibit them ....

Answer 2

Well, this should help.....


Examine his body language. If he likes you, you will see that his body position will lean forward toward you.

Keep close. Ever get the feeling that somebody is "in" your personal space - so much so that you want to step back? If he likes you, and you like him, neither of you will step back.

Notice his eye contact. If he likes you, he'll get it and hold it. Again, this can be uncomfortable if you don't like him or vice versa. You'll know if you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly.

Be aware of touching. He might put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. This is a very good sign that he likes you.

Keep an eye out. His pupils will dilate (get bigger) if he likes you, but this is quite hard to pick up on, and you might look a bit weird looking that closely into his eyes.

Watch for him showing interest in things you like and do.

Joke freely. Does he laugh, even if you aren't funny?
Check for signs of nervousness: nervous laughter, sweaty palms, fidgeting, etc. Unless he's scared of public speaking and is about to make a presentation, it just might be that he's nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies (hopefully you).

Smile. A big smile in return probably means the feeling is mutual.

See if he always ends up in the same part of the room as you. Perhaps he keeps going out of his way to bump into you.

Pay attention to his friends. If they know he's interested in you, they might tease him subtly when you're around, hint to you that he likes you, or even try to find out if you like him. Also study their reactions to your presence. Do they smile?

Do they turn to him? If so, then there's a good chance he really does like you.

Answer 3

Well, if he tries to be with you all the time, he tries to flirt, he always looks at you and smiles, he chooses you for everything, etc. he obiosly likes you but don't always go with that because some guys have other ways to show they like you.

Answer 4

If he talks to you, makes a point of being where you are...these are signs. If he laughs at your jokes, if he smiles when you smile, if his pupils get bigger when he looks at you, if his big toe is pointing towards you when you are sitting, if his legs are wide apart when sitting opposite you, oh I could go on and on....

Answer 5

Body language is you're friend, here are five signs that someone may be flirting with you.

1. The flirting triangle. When we look at people we're not familiar with (in a business situation for instance), our eyes make a zig-zag motion: we look from eye to eye and across the bridge of the nose.

With friends, the look drops below eye level and moves into a triangle shape: we look from eye to eye but also look down to include the nose and mouth.

Once we start flirting, the triangle gets even bigger - it widens at the bottom to include their good bits (like the body). The more intense the flirting, the more intensely we'll look from eye to eye - and the more time we'll spend looking at their mouth.

If someone is watching your mouth while you're talking to them, it can be very, very seductive. It could be that they're imagining what it would be like to kiss you.

2. Mirroring. This is what separates a good flirt from a great flirt: nothing will bond you more effectively than mirroring someone's behavior. This simply means you do whatever it is they do. If they lean forward to tell you something intimate, you lean in to meet them. If they sit back to take a sip of their drink and look you in the eye, you pause then follow suit.

The theory behind mirroring is that we like people who are like us. If someone is doing what we're doing, we feel they're on the same level as us and in the same mood as we are.

There are two no-go areas with this one, though: firstly, only mirror positive body language; second, capture the spirit rather than mimicking them. As a general rule, wait around 50 seconds before following their gestures.

3.The eyebrow flash. When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. If they are similarly attracted, they raise their eyebrows in return. Never noticed? It's not surprising since the whole thing lasts only about a fifth of a second!

We're not consciously aware of doing it, but it's a gesture that is duplicated by every culture on Earth. In fact, some experts claim it's the most instantly recognized non-verbal sign of greeting used by humans.

The trick is to watch for it when you meet someone you fancy. Better still, tell them you're interested on a subconscious level by prolonging your eyebrow flash for up to one second - deliberately raise them while catching their eye for full impact.

4.Pointing. Sneak a peek at what their feet and hands are doing - we tend to point toward the person we're interested in. If we find someone attractive, we'll often point at them subconsciously with our hands arms, feet, legs, toes.

Again, it's an unconscious indicator to make our intentions known. Unconsciously, this is often picked up by the other person, without them really knowing why.

So if you've got your eye on someone in the corner, point your body in their direction - even if you don't make eye contact, they may take the hint.

5. Blinking. If someone likes what they see, their pupil size increases and so does their blink rate. If you want to up the odds in your favor, try increasing the blink rate of the person you're talking to, by blinking more yourself. If the person likes you, they'll unconsciously try to match your blink rate to keep in sync with you, which in turn, makes you both feel more attracted to each other!

Now, one final word before you go rushing off to the nearest bar to practice all this. Before you go, you must understand...
The golden rule of body language

Don't judge on one thing alone. Sitting with your arms crossed is often perceived as a defensive, stand-off posture. But it might also mean you're freezing cold, you're having a fat day or just spilt coffee all over your top!

Don't jump to conclusions, instead look for clusters of behavior. If someone has their arms crossed and their lips are pursed disapprovingly, it's a fairly safe bet they are on the defensive. Most body language experts favor the Rule of Four, which means look for at least four signals suggesting the same thing before totally believing it.

Answer 6

if he is really nice to you, flirting, teasing, playful hitting. if he sometimes makes comments about how pretty or sweet you are. if he turnes his body towards you whenever you are around or looks at ur lips when you talk. if he is staring at you, that is a big sign too

Answer 7

it's kind of hard to answer your question because there's barely any detail... but it's often the little things, like when he looks at you with a certain look...or even a random remark, or just his eyes. it could also be something like him being kind of protective or concerned about you...

Answer 8

If he goes out of his way to be with you and treats you different than other women he is around.

Answer 9

he will blush when he talks to you , he might pick on you a bit & stare at you he will take an interest in your friends & of course what you plans are .

Answer 10

the way he looks at you that you may find disturbing

You need to learn body language

Answer 11

Like the 50's song "It's in his kiss"..