i am in love with my close neighbor and brother's friend. He is my age but is good friends with my younger brother. andi am falling in love with him. i dont know how to tell him i like him! help pleasE! what should i say to him and wen shouldi say it?
2007-03-24 10:58:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do not tell him becuase that will ruin your brother's friendship with him.
2007-03-24 11:01:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be a normal nice girl to him. If you can help, offer him your help every time. There is no need for you to tell that you like him or your in love with him. Show and demonstrate it, instead. Of course, you have to make yourself beautiful and desirable for him.
Try to find out what he likes in a girl and be that girl.
Do not get a bf while he is still available, and ask him to accompany you whenever you need one.
Be thoughtful in relation to him.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 18:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by PJA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel. That happened to me, and I've been married with him for 13 years! I don't mean to scare you, but best friends make great husbands.
Let him find out , plan thing with him, do everything together and above all let him know how much you appreciate his opinion when you have something to decide. Let him know how much you appreciate him being with you in all of your better moments in life. Make him think about how happy you are when you are together.
2007-03-24 18:04:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
like the other guy said....he's NOT your brother! just be flirty w/ him and maybe kinda hint to your brother that u like it when his friend is over. when they're over talk with him and give him some hints that maybe sumthings going on between you two and after awhile he'll most likely realize he likes being with you two and then tell him! i know its hard to be patient but if u tell him too soon it could ruin it forever!
ps. try and be nice to your brother too cuz if he gets it b4 ur friend does then he could tell him and that could end out kinda bad!
2007-03-24 18:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think people here can answer that question because we need to be in your place to know something like that.
but ill tell u what not to do.
don't "send" anyone to find out for u what he feels because he might not be honest with this messenger and it will make u disappointed for no reason..
just when u feel its the right moment to talk to him, be honest but don't scare him off
and don't trouble your mind about the right moment, it wouldn't feel easier even then...
2007-03-24 18:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by tzuzaman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don`t always have to tell him.You can show sign that you like him,like the way you talk to him or look at him.You can also hang out with him more,like when he sits down you go sit beside him.You can tell him when you are strong enough.
2007-03-24 18:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by mogan13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay phocused on your school work, it's ok to be in love but don't let thinking of a boy get in the way of knowledge and wisdom. love and learning are both on the same level, it's cool to love and it's cool to learn. never hide love , be upfront and let him know you think he's cool.
2007-03-24 18:10:41 · answer #7 · answered by airmaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is NOT your brother, ask him out. take the plunge girlfriend nothing ventured nothing gained, Good Luck
2007-03-24 18:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it is the right time u will know... and u should have your younger brother talk to him...u know, say good stuff about u!...but remember one thing...NEVER EVER GIVE UP UR HOPES!!!
2007-03-24 18:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by Emms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you think this is going to affect your relationship with your brother?
2007-03-24 18:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by JZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh thats gonna be a bit akward if he only sees u as a sister... not a girlfriend sooo id find out if he likes u first or idk also ur brother might not like the fact that ur dating his friend... my brother dated my best friend and i hated him because i lost her as a best friend. but good luck.
2007-03-24 18:00:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋