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i will keep this short:

in high school there was this guy who i always caught starting at me. in college one night i saw him again and he was staring at me. i guess i looked and then looked away.

okay so on facebook.com, his profile popped up - it took all my nerve to msg him only to find out that he didn't remember seeing me at the college that night. i'm not sure if he remembers me at all like in high school.

i feel like i've read him all wrong this whole time like he liked me or something but now i just feel like one of the girls he just smiles or stares at just cause i'm pretty or something...=(

should i keep talking to him? we've never really talked AT ALL before face to face.

2007-03-24 10:57:57 · 11 answers · asked by wreckless_angel 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

talk to him so that he'll get to know you for who you are. let him know that you're unique and not just a pretty face to stare at.

2007-03-24 11:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Olivanlav 2 · 0 0

Well you started this off asking .. should u keep him... it doesnt look like u have ever had him...however.... if u keep talking to him things might become diffrent...

it may have been an excuse that he didnt remember you so that it wont seem wierd that u caught him..... but on the other hand maybe ur someone who thinks ppl stare at u...lol...either ways if your chatting on the comp see where it takes u....you might get to know him and then end up liking him....but take it slow dont jump to conclusions. goodluck

2007-03-24 18:05:35 · answer #2 · answered by lovely 2 · 0 0

Since he didn't remember you from HS, there's probably no chemistry on his end--now. Invite him for drinks at a nice establishment--no wild college bars--somewhere you can chat. See where it goes. Don't get your hopes up, or fawn all over him. Treat it like a blind date, cause although you "know" him, he basically doesn't know who you are.

2007-03-24 18:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by Carol D 5 · 0 0

Its up to you it sounds like you thought more fo him than he did of you, but remember girls think and act diffrently than boys, so you know everyone needs freinds you don't have to have a sexual relationship, but freinds go along way.. Good Luck

2007-03-24 18:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by eeyore6838 5 · 0 0

You should keep talking to him. I mean if your at all into him. I think he diserves a chance and your not sure if he likes you that way so i say go for it.

2007-03-24 18:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

hey maybe he just said he didn't remember you because he doesn't want to look like the creepy stalker guy. keep talking to him. something good might happen.

2007-03-24 18:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should definately talk. He probably likes you, but is shy. Get to know him, but don't act like you want a relashinship until you really like him.

2007-03-24 18:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by sk8ergirlsierra 2 · 0 0

it will be werid but keep him. you should try talking to him. for example, you can ask a question like "hi how are you" or say "it's a nice day, isn't it" just to keep the conversation going.

2007-03-24 18:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Dollyrocker 4 · 0 0

you gotta go for what you want in life,no1 will give you a thing.
if you like this fella,go for it!!! tell him!!! but watch your back.

2007-03-24 18:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think you should keep talking with him. there could be alot of opportunity in that.

2007-03-24 18:01:31 · answer #10 · answered by Liz 3 · 0 0

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