My best friend hooked me up with this guy that i really liked and the other night while i was with her he called her phone. I know that he called her because she said his name. When I asked why he was calling her phone she told me that he was just her "friend. I think that he likes her or vice versa but either way thats wrong because shes supposed to be my friend. When we're in school they act all lovey dovey. What am i supposed to do???????????
2007-03-24 10:56:58 · 15 answers · asked by sweetypie10456 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U need 2 brek of the relationship with your friend and tell tour boyfirend what is going on .
2007-03-24 11:02:36 · answer #1 · answered by M$. C@RT3R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your best friend hooked you up with this guy it is very possible that they are just friends. Most of my friends in school were male and I was constantly hooking them up with my buds. Often people would get the wrong idea about me too but I always tried to make sure there were no questionable situations. If you are really concerned you could try talking to your best friend or to your boyfriend ( I recommend your friend first since men come and go and friendships usually last longer). Some warning signs: either of them try to deny they are contacting each other , they spend a lot of one-on-one time together without anyone else, and if it seems like they are spending more time together than they are with you, then you could be rightfully concerned. Last of all: a possible reason for him calling your friend is YOU. Maybe he wanted to ask your favorite color, flower, song, band etc and didn't want to ask you directly because you'd already told him once or he was planning a surprise. There are plenty of logical reasons for him to have called but if you keep on getting the vibe that something just isn't right, and you aren't getting answers from either your friend or you boyfriend, then you are going to have to decide if you want to break up with him or stay with him and run the risk of being hurt. Keep in mind though, that every relationship has the potential to hurt but it also has the potential to give you some of the most wonderful moments and experiences in your life.
2007-03-24 11:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by eryana_nosowforu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let em both have each other and find new friends and a boyfriend. Why care? Let be what will be. There are other people in the world besides these two. In the mean time if you happen to cross paths with either one just say hi and make an excuse like your going or doing something else. If you react like this you will get the respectful reactions you are seeking.
2007-03-24 11:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
puhleeze dont come up to any conclusions, if ur best friend hooked u up with the guy dont u think she knows him as a friend. i'm sure ur best friend wouldn't hook u up with a complete stranger. When u c the 2 of them flirtin and touchin each other as if they were together then u should kick the crap out of her (not literally though)
2007-03-24 11:10:08 · answer #4 · answered by Gabby101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens, First dont belive any thing that your friend is telling... then tell some other friends to keep on eye on ur bf and your friend.... If it seems that they like each other... confront him...........In the mean time.... try to imprss your boyfriend... show him how much better you are then your friend.... The girl who is tring to steal your bo0yfriend... you must know her..... find all her bad points and expose them...well if you find out that they like each other... then jsut break up with him.... it shows that he doesnt like you ...... :) good luck
2007-03-24 11:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if he likes u or ur friend cuz it looks like he likes her the way hes acting and shes terrible ugh talk to her and tell her how u feel
2007-03-24 11:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by blah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him, if he wants her or you, and just except it. Now if he wants you, you tell him, that he cannot call her, or have no contact with her. This way you will know for sure, who he wants.
2007-03-24 11:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are u calling him ur boyfriend? he doesnt sound like hes ur actual boyfriend he sounds like hes just a kid u like and he might like ur friend so ur gonan have to find out by asking him or her... and then get over it.
2007-03-24 11:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him be with her if thats what they want and u can find someone on your own and dont let her know it bothers you and i would start looking for a better friend they should not do that to you...
2007-03-24 11:01:33 · answer #9 · answered by sashabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to HIM about! don't talk to your friend though becuz that could start a fight or ruin the friendship. ask him and if they do like each other u can dump him and THEN go talk to your friend about it.
2007-03-24 11:01:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋