my boyfriend and i live 300 miles apart, i love him loads and i know he loves me but we only get to see each other a few times a month. although i am planning to move down to where he lives its going to take me a few months before im able to. do you think it's likely to last?
2007-03-24 10:56:29 · 11 answers · asked by tj 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi TJ, these relationships can and do work and i can tell you this with honesty as originally was in one.
I met someone whilst on leave from the army,my home town is Plymouth in Devon.
After a week i returned to the army,we kept in contact via letter and twice a week by phone.
I would get leave once every 7 weeks,sometimes for a week sometimes just a weekend.
This continued for 18mnths when through injury i returned for good,and continued the relationship.
She lived at home with her parents as when we first met she was 15 and i was 18 years old.
About 6mnths later she moved in with me,and soon after was pregnant with our first child.
We met in 1984,and now in 2007 we have 5 children 8,12,18,19 and 20 years old.
I love her with all my heart,and tell her i love her everyday also how sexy she still is.
So all in all yes long distance relationships can work,infact it can be fantastic if its anything like what mine turned out like.
Be honest with eachother,and keep in regular contact and you will be fine. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-24 14:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Tony 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It can work and if you are going to move then it does have a good chance - sometimes though long distance relationships work because you are not in each others pockets and being together a lot more can put too much pressure on a relationship. Just take it easy and take each day as it comes - good luck and I hope it works out for you both
2007-03-24 11:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 12:49:02 · answer #3 · answered by cornelius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its like any other relationship - sometimes its distance, sometimes its circumstances, backgrounds, finances...they all have hurdles. You have to work hard to make it work and thats it! Good luck. It will be hard at first when you are finally together all the time - you might feel it isn't as exciting but stick in there and it will be great!
2007-03-24 11:06:44 · answer #4 · answered by AUNTY EM 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It will last if you guys have good trust in each other and communication. Those are the two main things you need for any kind of long lasting relationship.
2007-03-24 11:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im in the same situation my boyfriend lives 3 hours away from me and we've made it last for 2 years. if you really love him you should stick wilth him it will all work out for you in the end.
2007-03-25 00:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by amy w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend and i have a long distance relationship and its working fine. my advice is to try it and see, especially if your moving there in a few months.
2007-03-24 11:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really love each other then you just have to try. If it works it works if not then you can always say you tried. If you give up now you'll always wonder if it would have worked or not.
2007-03-24 11:02:04 · answer #8 · answered by wicca_alison 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think if u both want it then it will work distance makes the heart grow fonder lol
2007-03-24 11:59:25 · answer #9 · answered by peachyrebecca 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes a commitment and a look of work by both of you, but it can work.
2007-03-24 11:03:07 · answer #10 · answered by David S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋