2007-03-24 10:35:00 · 14 answers · asked by M$. C@RT3R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Their job? What do you mean by job? And if he had a job he wasn't doing, were you doing your job as a girlfriend?
2007-03-24 10:41:36 · answer #1 · answered by Deus Luminarium 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's curious you would ask that question are you not upset if a guy breaks up with you. For the most part young guy's don't have a clue what a relationship is most have no experience it's something that's learned over time. I personally never look at a relationship as a job......so whats your job as a girlfriend?
2007-03-24 17:46:02 · answer #2 · answered by miester44 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably don't know what theyre doing wrong (you know how guys are.) Let them know what they did wrong before youu break up with them and if they still dont understand, then they're just not b/f material. Or maybe they havent actually been a b/f that much before and they are upset because they feel youu didn't give them a good enough chance. If thats the case, talk with him and show him how a good relationship works and maybe you guys can work this out.
2007-03-24 17:41:35 · answer #3 · answered by jessiPhS2010 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys are wierd for starters when u break up with them because they're not even doing their job as a boyfriend they don't know for starters unless u tell them and when you do sometimes they don't even fix it but they make a big deal about the girl breaking up with them because their pride is broken completely and stuff and ugh it's just extreamly irritating to even look at them in that state becuase they feel stupid and angry at the same time.
2007-03-24 17:40:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because they didn't think that they were doing a bad job. some guys really aren't attentionate and don't know how to show affection, but that doesn't mean they don't love you. That is why it is hard for them to break up because they realize that they weren't good enough for you and it hurts their feelings (or pride)
try to see the signs of affection next time, and if they really don't care than you about you shouldn't either if they seem hurt.
2007-03-24 17:39:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jakie22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes they do not care and they go on pimping other girls thicks or hoes and usually girls cry if they loved them and the boy broke up with them and it is so hard for us girls or us women to get over that feeling and the day that they have did that to our poor hearts and reli8ze whta they did and will still not give a damn!!!
2007-03-24 17:40:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy Bit** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause boys are crybabies and they think the should be able to do what they want when they want, Its good to lay down the line when there not there for you.
2007-03-24 17:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by Jean C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha good question! i just broke up with mine for that reason! he wasnt doing his job only i was... and you know what you can't make them do their job they have to want to.. and mine got upset and cryed but ive hurd his same sobbing story before and nothing changes.. they are just mad that your not theirs anymore and sometimes they just dont get how to be a good b/f but you dont need to stick around till they grow up and are ready to be one.
2007-03-24 17:39:35 · answer #8 · answered by craziglueforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's just because they don't like to be dumped by a girl that's every boy problem
2007-03-24 17:38:58 · answer #9 · answered by carmel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want to love us but dont want to do the work to give it read me question of what my boyfriend did to me
2007-03-24 17:38:55 · answer #10 · answered by MMM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋