boyfriend...?

Question

i feel really bad, i lead him on and now were dating, two months later I really realized I dont like him that much...

But he is like in love with me, everyone tells me he wont shut up about me, but I never talk about him.

Sure he is cute, hes nice and hes a good boyfriend but i get almost like annoyed by him..
Should I wait it out, or whats a nice way to break up with him ? I wouldnt really have to see him a lot, since we dont have any classes together...

Its not fair if I keep stringing him along... but i really really dont want to hurt his feelings..

Answer 1

If he's infatuated with you then there's really no way that you won't hurt him when you break up ,,,, It's just the way things are sometimes ,,,,
But as for yourself ,,,, Well ,,,, You aren't married to him and you don't really have any obligations to anyone including him so if you don't have the feelings for him you think you should or if this relationship isn't really what you want then the only thing you can do is to just break it off ,,,, Do it quick and make it final ,,,, let him know that it's not open for discussion but be honest with him and just tell him what's going on with you where this is concerned ,,,, A sharp knife cuts that quickest and hurts the least so to speak ,,,, It's not going to do either one of you any good to continue this way ,,,, I see no profit in it for you to try ,,,, It takes two to make a relationship and if there aren't two then there is no relationship to begin with ,,,, You aren't going to be any good for anyone else unless or until you are good for yourself first ,,,,
You need to keep yourself focused on you at this time in your life ,,,, Why cause more worry or discomfort for yourself worring about some thing you have no control over ,,,, You either like this guy or you don't ,,,, You can't be blamed one way or the other ,,,, It's comendable of you to be concerned about his feelings but it still doesn't settle anything where you are concerned ,,,, It's past time for you to move on sugar ,,,, Put this situation in your past and let it stay there and don't think about it any longer ,,,, Besides getting your self tied down to one person too early just might cause you to miss meeting that Mr Right guy ,,,, Get as wide a range of acquaintances as you can while you are still young ,,,, Shop around so to speak ,,,, Find out who and what's out there before you become serious about anyone ,,,, This will enable you to make a wiser decision as to who you want to settle down with when you ready for a more involved relationship later on ,,,,, you got a star from me for this question ,,,, Good luck to you ,,,, Yoda told you so ,,,,

Answer 2

You need to sit down and tell him how you feel. Don't worry about the fact that he likes you so much. In the long run, the longer you lead him on, the harder it will be for him. I would suggest ending it now since your feelings are obviously strong. Let him know that you think he's a great guy, but he just not the guy for you. A lot of people also find that they can still be friends afterwards. Hopefully this is the case for you guys! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Nothings going to be easy on him, but the sooner the better, its only going to get worse. Sit him down somewhere private and be honest and let him know you have to move on. Nothing personal, nothing wrong with you, I'm just not down with this relationship anymore....sorry. NEVER end it with "we can still be friends"...that business is like twisting the dagger. Even if you end up being great friends later, he's going to have to go with the "I hate that b*tch" part to appropriately get over you. Nothing personal, just the way it is.

Answer 4

Well just say im sorry i just want to be friends! Honesty is the best policy. I know this will be hard to do but you cant keep torturing yourself like this. He will get over you sooner or later once you dump him.

Answer 5

just tell him how you honestly feel...dont embarass him..make him feel comfortable when youre talking to him. you'll hurt his feelings more by breaking up with him later on when his feeling for you is much much stronger. ..so do it now