I don't understand why some guys i.e my bf only wants to see me twice a week and it has to be not 2 days together, I have said to him about it and the fact that I would like to see more of each other seeing as we have been going out a year now not like it's a few months, but it's not like he is doing anything else because he tells me and he I know he dosen't so I have no worries their he tells me he loves me I do believe him but surley if you love someone you wanna see them a bit more, maybe he is frightned but he says their is nothing wrong with him and he is fine?????
2007-03-24 10:26:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, sounds kinda suspicious. Ya think he might have another girl or two that he only sees twice a week?
2007-03-24 10:31:12 · answer #1 · answered by bluehog88 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well to be honest it sounds like to me that you are just friends with benefits ,,,, Guys your age and older up to their 30's or 40's sometimes let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, He's probably telling you he loves you just the keep the fires burning for when he does decide he needs physical release ,,,, All he has to do to keep you receptive is tell you he loves you ,,,, That's no big thing and it doesn't cost him a dime ,,,, Wait and see what happens though if he should meet someone he really falls for ,,,, He will drop you like a hot rock and move on ,,,, A relationship is no good when there is only one participant ,,,, It takes two ,,,, and two willing partners not just one ,,,, All of this might sound hard ,, cruel and heartless but life it's self is hard ,, cruel and heartless ,,,, If I were you I'd do a close examination of the situation you have with this guy you think you have a relationship with ,,,, A relationship is supposed to be fun and exciting all the time not just a couple of times a week ,,,, If he really felt about you the way he should he'd be around so much that you would welcome his leaving once in a while ,,,, You don't need this crap ,,,, You deserve allot better ,,,, If he's not living up to your expectations then it's time to find some one that is willing to ,,,, There are allot of fish in the pond so to speak ,,,, Find out who and what's out there before you get too serious over anyone ,,,, Go fishing and find some one that is fun and exciting to be with and is willing to treat you the way you should be treated ,,,, They are out there all you have to do is find one and some of them even come trouble and problem free ,,,, Think about it ,,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-03-24 12:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy is finding for an prolonged term romantic courting, with a dedication, then he probably won't prefer thus far you. So, in case you do settle for a date with a guy, verify he knows what the score is, so there is not any unhappiness/rejection/in spite of later on. If a guy is purely finding for a exciting time, without expectancies of something previous that, he'd probably be happy with it, as others have reported, because of the fact it will advance his shot at a three way.
2016-12-15 08:05:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is your relationship based on the rules your bo sets?
if you were the one with the two day a week rule, do you think that he would be putting up with that after telling you that he wants to see you more?
and not to plant a bug in your ear, but
how do you know that he is not doing something behind your back?
just because he said so...
yeah, everyone that 'cheats' tells their mate that they are 'not' cheating on them...you are not the monkey on his back so the truth is you don't know for sure that he is not doing something.
why are you with this guy again?
oh yeah,
because he only has 2 days out of the week to devote to you...are we talking about the entire 48 hours, or just a movie, dinner, and a piece of a?
this is not to mock you, or poke fun at your situation, it's only for you to t.h.i.n.k. when people first start seeing each other, they see each other ALL the time, a guy wants to b with you ALL the time, because he can't get enough of you 'if you know what i mean'...
something smells fishy to me...
reconsider this relationship before you spend more time in it. you don't want to devote all your time to someone who doesn't want to see you. am i to assume that you are way younger than this guy? cause it sounds like that.
you need to decide if a part-part-part-time boyfriend is what makes you happy. if this is what does, then go for it.
if not, you need to l.e.a.v.e.
best of luck sweets
2007-03-24 10:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ahhh....been there done that. It is good to just have some time to yourself. I don't know how old you are and all but when I was younger I didn't want to be with my girl every second of every day. As stated in an earlier post, you don't want to get tired of each other. And just because he doesn't want to be with you every day doesn't men that he doesn't love you and that he is with someone else. Space is actually a good thing.
2007-03-24 10:35:47 · answer #5 · answered by DC 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
to be honest with you he doesn't like you hes problably seeing someone else at the same time, i would do anything to see my girlfriend as much as i could because i cant get enough of her! Or you can try looking really sexy skirt and all, make him want you and then if he wants to see you say you cant! He''ll notice that it doesnt feel good wanting more!
2007-03-24 10:59:46 · answer #6 · answered by dennis b 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my guess is you like his challenge. He knows what he is doing. If you saw each other every day, every hour, every second, you would get tired of each other. My guess is he really likes you and wants to find out if you are a complete match for him. But he doesn't want to do it all in one day. He will find out little by little. This way, he doesn't screw up every chance he has with you because he became a needy clingy wuss.
2007-03-24 10:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bad boyfriend. I would want to be with my girlfriend as often as possible...
2007-03-24 10:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he is keeping you on the side until something better comes along
2007-03-24 10:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by charles w 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋