i am a 14 year old male. i am starting to feel some very adult things like the desire for love. i have a problem. i want a girlfriend bad. however i can,t find a girl who meets my standards or is what i want. i have several girls who like me and even some that love me. but i don,t wan to go with any of them because they don,t meet my standards. i see couples in school all the time kissing, hugging, the dude standing right behind the girl with her but on his crouch and i wonder why can,t i find a girl to do that with? i want someone i can hold, someone to comfort me when im down. someone who i can love. someone who would run into my arms. am i asking for too much. are my standards too high. is it impossible to get what im asking for? alot of other people seem to get it. is there anyone out there for me?
2007-03-24 10:24:44 · 7 answers · asked by Riddles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i felt exacly as you when i was in school
But patience, we all have a special girl out there for each of us...me, i still havent found the one, or so i think...maybe we have but havent realize...but Love is everywhere, im glad you are learning about Love:)
2007-03-24 10:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by over_the_hi1111 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your feeling really lonely and you are wanting someone to turn the loneliness into a beautiful garden of romance. "Slow it down partner you are only FOURTEEN YEARS OLD. I know that nowadays teenagers are so eager to be involved in things that you shouldn't be worrying about until you have passed the bloom of youth. Sure it's fun to feel that puppy love type of fantasy with someone you think is very special in your eyes, but trust me, your not missing out. ENJOY your youth while you can. Don't be so quick to throw your self into a life of so called love. You'll only be setting yourself up to fall into an ocean full of "INFATUATION". But if you really want to have that special someone become a part of your life now, then STOP LOOKING FOR LOVE. She will come along when the time is right. It will happen when you least expect it. I just hope that your "ready"! Just rember, you should be friends first and let it gradually advance into something more. "bye bye".
2007-03-24 17:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by Beautifull 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as growing male, u obviously feel like that, but as a nice guy u wouldn't wana get laid. no, ur standards r not to high. u will find some one better than the girl just sitting on a guy's crouch.
i'm 18, never had bf.
2007-03-24 17:32:52 · answer #3 · answered by gurria_rulz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 years old and you have standards such as what?
your lucky if you can even get a girl to be your friend your way too young for a serious realtionship too. so quit the bs buddy your standards are you need a puppy or something so ask mommy to by you one your not reaDY FOR A WOMEN AND WOULDNT EVEN KNOW HOW TO PLEASE ONE IM SURE
2007-03-24 17:34:40 · answer #4 · answered by tabatha g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 14 too. I want a boyfriend. And I meet all those standards. click on my profile and email me.
2007-03-24 17:28:12 · answer #5 · answered by Slightly Mad Bohemian Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feal the same way i am 15 and i have guys who say they love me or say they like me and i dont really like them the same way.. good luck you will find someone someday... and no your not asking for too much everyone deserves love...
-Ashley
2007-03-24 17:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are four billion people in this world. Your bound to find one. Be patient. Youll find her.
2007-03-24 17:26:47 · answer #7 · answered by Obi-Wan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋