On my return commute from work, there is a guy on the bus that is almost always on at the same time is me. I find him really, really attractive; I think he might me, too. We stare at each other the entire ride, and I do mean stare. My question is, how do I know it is an "I find you attractive" stare on his part, and not "Oh my God, why is this girl staring at me, is she crazy?!" Should I make a move and talk to him? Thanks in advance for any advice!!
2007-03-24 10:21:03 · 15 answers · asked by YoungShyCareerGirl 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unquestionably an "attracted" stare. "OH MY GOD A CRAZY CHICK"...generally involves averting the eyes and avoiding the stare. He may be a shy guy but clearly interested....casually try a "hey, you wanna go grab a cup of coffee?"
2007-03-24 10:25:37 · answer #1 · answered by Cronides 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should stop looking at him altogether ,,,, Pretend to read a book or something ,,,, It's totally inappropriate for you to make the first move ,,,, If he's interested enough he will do it ,,,, If you don't know him then he could be anything from just an admirer to a serial killer ,,,, He's a potential anything until you know for sure ,,,, Stay alert and on your guard ,,,, Women have wound up dead in situations that started like this ,,,, Don't believe me? ,,,, Read the new papers ,,,, Yoda warned you ,,,,
2007-03-24 21:22:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oyyyyyyyyyyyyy tough one. I try to avoid being obvious when I check out women but I know if one were seriously into me I'd love it if she came up to me. You should check to see if he's got a wedding ring on though. you dont have to throw yourself at him just get an innocent chat started and if it seems good ask him out for coffee at a well populated place in the afternoon.
Vin
2007-03-24 17:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys like to be aproached by girls. When a guy stares at a girl it definitely means he likes her. go for it! I almost guarantee he will like you!
good luck!
2007-03-24 17:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sit next to him and strike up a conversation. start off with something like, "come here often?", you'll get a laugh and the ice is broken. then you just work your magic.
2007-03-24 17:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he thought you were a freak for staring at you, hed be giving you weird looks not gazing back. you should talk to him. sit next to him and ask him to go for a drink or coffee. good luck!!! =)
2007-03-24 17:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah G 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The only way to find out is to ask him, if he's doing the same as you, then I guess you've got your answer. :D
2007-03-24 17:25:22 · answer #7 · answered by ☆Danielle☆ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should losen up a little smell your breath and check your hair and teeth and face and go ask him for coffe or donut or something
2007-03-24 17:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by shunta w 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sit next to him (if you don't already) and just start talking and see where life takes you
2007-03-24 17:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by adlingtont 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
move next to him and start a conversation like hi...how r u...wat brings u on the bus...and if he likes u he'll he'll ask u out
2007-03-24 17:24:50 · answer #10 · answered by MiMi™ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋