she and her boyfriend of a WEEK! recently brokeup and she keeps going off on everyone saying that they were meant to be together and that god put him there for he to spend her life with and he wouldn't just take him away and she won't listen to anyone and SHE'S ONLY 15! and he lives 2 HOURS AWAY she won't listen to anyone's opinion! PLEASE HELP ME!
2007-03-24 10:20:57 · 9 answers · asked by Kim Raz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she's mad and sad i can understand but just let her cool off and she will be fine and if she doesn't then talk to her and slap some sense in that girl
2007-03-24 10:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by sweetncuteladi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell her God does things for a reason and if they are not together now then that meant they are not meant to be together and that she really needs to settle down because their are many guys that would love to be with her she just have to wait and what god has for her will come soon too!!
2007-03-24 17:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by carmel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's not your ward and you aren't her jailer ,,,, All you can try to do is convince her of the truth ,,,, If she's not receptive to what your are trying to tell her ,,,, well then at least you tried ,,,, You can't control her mind or do her thinking for her ,,,, Time will eventually convince her of the truth ,,,, All you can to after she's decided you are right is just be there for her ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-03-24 21:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if this is her first break up. She is young, and she needs to learn to except, the fact that she and her boyfriend is broke up. Tell her this is a lesson in growing up. And life still goes on. Tell her to ask her pastor, he will tell her the same, you lose some and you gain some, but life still goes on.
2007-03-24 17:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all if she won't listen to anyones opinion then what are you going to do????!!!!!!!Second, try to get that guy to talk to her and tell him to tell her that there are other guys then just him. She'll listen to him if she thinks that is her soul mate
2007-03-24 17:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by carlislebum 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'M SORRY TO HEAR THAT BUT YOU WILL JUST HAVE TO GIVE HER SPACE AND TIME TO WORK THIS OUT SHE IS YOUNG AND THIS MAY SEEM LIKE THE END OF THE WORLD SHE WILL BE FINE SOON IF YOUR A GOOD FRIEND YOU WILL PUT UP WITH HER GOOD AND BAD DAYS
2007-03-24 17:30:57 · answer #6 · answered by day shaun 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The part where you said, "SHE'S ONLY 15" explains everything. She'll get over it. When she starts stalking him...then start worrying. Otherwise-ignore her...she'll be fine. LIZ
2007-03-24 17:24:45 · answer #7 · answered by Eric & Liz E 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
don't go along with her mania. she is freakin out, and now she has you freakin out. you know that in two weeks she will be ok. she starts going on about him, change the subject. if she doesn't get it tell her that you don't want to hear it. introduce her to other guys.
but most of all...don't take on her blown out of proportion problems.
shouldn't you be dating right now, instead of worrying about crazy?
2007-03-24 17:28:56 · answer #8 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of teenage girls get like that sometimes, she'll get over it soon enough. Just leave her alone for a while.
2007-03-24 17:24:55 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋