were both 17. this girl has pillow fights with me, puts her photo into my phone as wallpaper, calls up my friends, even parents for jokes, even though i dont find it amusing, always laughs at my jokes, she gets very close to me, and wont move away.....and likes to touch me alot, and play with things i have. i get mixed signals though, as sometimes during the day she wont talk to me at all, cause she studies, but when were together she cant stop talking, and offering me food, and drinks, and going out places.One thing she does alot is curls up and goes to sleep for like a minute,and then wakes up, and does it again......whats all this mean???she also tells me about times when shes stressed at school and so forth....one thing thats really wierd though, she likes to know what her name is on my phone when it rings???.........need help, im from canada btw guys. I like this girl heaps, and need her to know that, cause im really scared of losing her to someone else
2007-03-24 10:19:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now the other day i asked her to the movies, and she goes"will you be paying?"...well we never ended up going that night since she got really tired, so i took her back home and left.I asked her this week if she would wnna go movies my shout , and she said she wont be going out for at least 2.5 weeks since shes so wasted from study....what should i make of this?.....i feel she is just playing me along now?....what do you guys think?one really odd thing is she talks to me when she needs help, but other than that i have to talk to her first for her to start talking to me.....via txt/msn etc...is she playing hard to get?, or is she just playing me around....im thinking of not saying anything to her and see how she reacts?
2007-03-24 10:19:53 · update #1
Yea, I agree and say you let her talk to you first and then you will know the real answer. I think she is just hopping on for the ride and doesn't care about you. You need someone better than that! You can do much better and I think you should go on with your plans. good luck dude!
2007-03-24 10:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there, you sound like a nice guy and this girl sounds quite mixed up, like she has problems at home or something! It's weird how she gave you a 2.5 week answer! maybe she's been grounded by strict parents, i can't get my head round it! you are both still so young, maybe she's discovering stuff about her 'powers' and you're falling for them! Even though I'm a woman be weary of them, we're so changeable, not a bad thing! I've been where you are now and I changed with my body and hormones, and let a really great guy down but we moved on and are both happy. have fun now and don't get messed up by the moment. good luck xx
2007-03-24 17:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by ells23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have not been straight forward with her enough yet to tell her how you feel and ask her if she feels the same way. Sometimes that is hard to do, but at this point you need to have an answer. If she puts you off and will not give a direct answer and explain her erratic behavior than leave her alone.
Her behavior is obviously very erratic and very unstable and she is unavailable for a relationship anyways. It sounds like you are somebody that can be available for a healthy relationship and you should focus your energy on somebody that appreciates you for who you are and can give back equally.
2007-03-24 18:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cwolf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no don't ignore her! alot of girls (including me) like to have the guys make the first move and be in control of the relationships! i think she really likes u! and if she wants to do well in school, who can blame her! she's not blowing u off, she's just trying to secure her future! seriously don't worry about a thing! she likes u! but she is one of those girls who is gonna expect u to be the man and pay on dates! u might need some money with this one- at least until u've been dating a while!
no worries mate!
2007-03-24 17:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sounds like she is just immature and playing you along.. i mean your both 17 and have alot of growing up to do . I wouldn't stress it to much. Just do your own thing and dont give her the attention she wants from you, let her know how it feels when she doesnt talk to you. She prolly just wants some affection and attention its up to you if you want to continue on this weird cycle you guys have.
2007-03-24 17:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by craziglueforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no there's nothing wrong with this girl. she's just showing you how much she likes you and you seem like you are hold back something. there's nothing to be afraid of if its meant to be it will all fall in place until then just take thing a day at a time
2007-03-24 17:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by msunknown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she likes you and she's using you at the same time. Only talking to you for the benifit of help is using her. although all the sighnes says she really likes you. I would read anymore into, if you feel like continualy helping her do if not don't.
2007-03-24 17:26:34 · answer #7 · answered by Nina C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
????????? WoW ummm ok i think that she likes you but she is also playin with you no affence but i think she sounds a lil like a dramma queen.... but then again i think she likes you but the whole study thing throughs me off... go as you planned dont talk to her and see if she talkes to you or not...
2007-03-24 17:26:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she *seems* to be tired from studying, just offer to help her study see how she reacts
2007-03-24 17:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Cailin D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy, i think she's definitely using you for the attention AND money
2007-03-24 17:24:18 · answer #10 · answered by Kim Raz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋