For the ladies: Why do only religious girls like me? Let me explain...?

Question

I am an above-average looking young guy in his early 20's. I am in no way religious, and I am definitley not straight-edge. I also have a previous history of drug use and even a few arrests. With that said, I am, however, a fairly nice person and I am often pretty quiet. I almost ALWAYS end up attracting religious 'do-good' type women. Does anyone know why?? These are not the kind of girls I am looking for.

I have also been told that I am 'innocent looking'. Also note that I don't dress like a 'badass' and I don't drive a motorcycle...nothing like that. The previous details just mean that I am nothing like these religious girls and yes, I have had a few relationships with some of them. Thank you for the advice so far!

Answer 1

Because we, the good girls, sometimes believe that a quiet guy is also a good guy. See, apparently bad guys are ovbious; they are voisterous, their grooming and dress style gives them away. Although, this is not necesarily the case, we go by what we see outwardly.

Answer 2

Ya Know , God Could Be Chasing you Dude

Perhaps If these Girls are sharing anything at all
concerning Gods Word or His Principles he's put them in Your Life to Plant , & Water "Seeds" in your Life

Either That or These Girls Aren't as Religious as You Think
At Least Not Serious Followers of the Bible
Or Their "Backsliden"

Cause The Bible instructs Believers To NOT
Be unequally Yoked w/ An Unbeliever

So They shouldn't Be Pursueing You as a B/F at All
At Least Not until You've opened Your Heart To God to Come in & Show you the Truth W/ The attitude You'll Recieve That truth when He Does

& Even Then Not Steady
Till You've Actually Recieved Jesus as Your Lord & Savior

& This answer is as Much for the Girls as it is for you

Answer 3

Religous women appeal to the fact you have "redeemed" yourself, such as getting yourself out of drug use and being arrested from because you now act like a nice, mature, but yet mysterious person. Most religons like the idea of redemption of sins. It would make any woman-crazy to know that you're more mature than the rest of the idiotic males they meet in thier daily lives. No woman likes an idiot unless she's an idiot herself.

Answer 4

HaHa. This Made Me Laugh.

Okay.

Let Me Guess-You Look Like A Nice,Hott,Guy.-Right?

Well It's The Whole Nice Guy Thing. Yup.

Answer 5

You sound very much like my son. I think the main thing that I hear in your question above is that you are "often pretty quiet". I have to tell you that women dont often go after the quiet guys. Don't get me wrong, there are tons of women out there and you will find one that falls for you sooner or later but your quietness goes against you. I know that is who you are and its very hard to open up and feel comfortable talking when that really isn't your personality type but it does make it harder for you in the dating game. A woman looks for a man who feels strong in himself and secure with who he is...women are drawn to men who are comfortable in their own skin. a man who is powerful and is comfortable leading people. Often times the ones that appear to be strong and secure really arent, instead they are extremely insecure and end up being dominant and abusive.You yourself will notice that these guys can often be complete jerks in reality and treat the great women they have like dirt. These girls often unconciously look up to these men as father type figures. Men who control them turn them on in many ways. I know it is stupid and makes no sense whatsoever but sadly it's true.
I am 40 years old. My first husband was just exactly like what I just said. I was drawn to this man. I would have done ANYTHING for him. The drama in the relationship becomes an addiction. Our marriage lasted only a few short years but enough time for me to have four kids. My ex husband is now almost 54 years old and he is exactly like he was then. he has gone through women like dirty dishrags. he doesn't pay child support and will die an unhappy, sad man. I am sorry for him now and wish that what I know now I knew then.
My second husband and I have been married for more than twice the time as my first marriage. 17 years almost! My husband now is the complete polar opposite of number 1. He is quiet and pretty shy. I had to chase him as he was way too shy to make the first move. His quiet personality is way more sexy to me now than that overbearing crap I was once turned on by. He is very powerful in his silence. He is strong and good to women. He is a true man in every sense of the word.

Enough about me. NOW, You say that these religious 'do good' type women are not the kind of girls you are looking for. You don't know what you are missing! You would be surprised what ANY woman would do for her man, religious or not. You are a quiet man and you wish the wild women that you are looking for would see you for what you really are. These religious, quiet type girls are the same way.Just because they have a certain belief in their lives does not make them unworthy. Try a relationship with one of them. The relationship takes on its own life and has nothing to do with your quietness and her religious beliefs. A so called religious woman has the same wild thoughts as a non religious woman. She would make you a great partner willing to do anything for her man if you are good to her. Try it out.

Answer 6

We all are certain magnets for certain types of people. I use to be a married man magnet until I demagnetized myself! LOL I am serious I stopped saying yes and starting looking at other ways of meeting SINGLE men and had standards. That led me down a whole other road. Before I knew it I had all these single men at my feet but it wasn't until I decided that I didn't want to be a home wrecker anymore. Examining how you are getting to that point is the most important map of finding your way out to find the girls that you want! Good luck!
XO,
BQ

Answer 7

Maybe they think that they can change you or something. Most good girls want to be the ones to say they changed a bad guy into a religious type. They probably just like youe charm or somehing.

Answer 8

Well i am a relgious girl. buti am more attracted to guys outside my religion the ones who ere never told about God, mostly the bad ones. I dont know why but they just seem more sexier to me. Also a guy at my church once used to have the same probably he was heavy into drugs and stuff until he meant the one girl at my church and she changed him around completely and now he tries to do the same for others. Plus him and that girl are married.

Answer 9

Im pretty religious, but im not a fanatic. Um all I can think is that the girls have been overly sheltered and are looking for a little adventure...they crave it. So dont be hatin...at least their lookin.

Answer 10

It's the calling that is on your own life. There must be a light over you that is drawing those type of girls. Which is a good thing. God is trying to tell you something. Listen...