we got in an argument over something so small..i was getting ready for a modeling audition, i was really stressed out..and he pretty much ruined it for me by telling me i should change into something else. he wasn't being rude at the time but i was so stressed that it threw me off and i got really upset. he got angry that i got upset over something so small (which i have done in the past), and he decided to ignore me..he has since yesterday..i talked to him today over the internet and he still won't talk to me..he said he needs to "clear his head"...im going insane..i have nothing to do and all i can think about is him! someone help me, please :( im really upset. he says he needs space right now..but it makes me angry because we live in different countries! weve been together for a year..and he only visits me for a couple weeks every two months..if anyone has any advice i'd really appreciate it :( im so in love with him. hes supposed to move here next month...
2007-03-24 10:15:35 · 11 answers · asked by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To give you the best advice I say step back a little, but still let him know that you care about him. Don't bug him every moment of the day, because I know someone who almost lost the person they loved by that. He needs some space right now so let him have it and let him think about hisself and his priorities. He will talk to you again when it is time. Good Luck!!
2007-03-24 10:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK-but remember you asked!! First of all, he sounds like a control freak. You sound like you need to calm it down,too.
Take this break to reassess your priorities. If you fall to pieces that easily over this what the heck will happen if something REALLY bad happens?Both need serious maturing BUT really consider if you can deal with his passive aggressive behavior. Not a good sign. Don't try to contact him at all. Keep busy. You were not the only one out of line here, you know!! How does HE know what looks right for a model audition? He is dissing you....think this over.
2007-03-24 10:28:54 · answer #2 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here. i know that you are totally not going to like this, but this is what i think you should do.
Give him what he needs. Don't talk to him at all, just leave him alone. Call your friends and have a girl's night, watch a funny non-romantic movie and do crazy things.
Just do what you can to get your mind off of him for awhile, and time will past and before you know it, HE will be the one trying to talk to YOU while you are with your friends at Starbucks or something
:D
I can totally feel your pain.... I'm very sorry.... but the best thing to do is to leave him alone with his thoughts and let him realize that he loves you and wouldn't let you go for a stupid little argument.
Just breathe, and have fun.
2007-03-24 10:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by Juliette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to talk 2 him and let him no u were stressed out and u still love him...wen ppl become stressed they need to take it out on some1 and tell him that u thought he'd understand and u made a mistake just dont forget the i love u part!
2007-03-24 10:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by MiMi™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What think is love may be lust.. are you sure is the question.. if ur not happy then move on.. i know its ezer said then done.. but some times you have to put your food down..
good luk
cheers
2007-03-24 10:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Zed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to tell my girlfriends i need space and want to clear my head because i was screwing some one else that was the only way i could break the relationship
2007-03-24 10:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by george e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he loves you but probably just needs time because he's probably getting tired of you always getting mad at him over small things...he doesnt talk to you because he doesnt want to talk when he's angry...JUST GIVE HIM A LITTLE TIME..everything will be fine in the end
2007-03-24 10:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearing his head is just another way of saying that he is clearing his bed. Wake up and smell the coffee. This was his way out.
2007-03-24 10:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think its about you. He has alot on his mind and needs time. Give it to him.
2007-03-24 10:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** him people that need to clear there head or not sure what they want are just people that need to stop suckin dick in there lives...
2007-03-24 10:18:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋