How do you get a girlfriend??

Question

What does a girl like? Do looks matter a lot? Does a guy have to have certain traits?

Answer 1

It depends what type of girl are you talking to. It varies from city to city, state to state etc...Society want others to think that look matters a lot, but it varies from opinion to opinion. Anybody can look really nice, but have a nasty attitude, or not look so nice, but have a caring heart and a good personality. As for guys having certain traits, it depends on what do you have going for yourself. No woman does not want a guy that does not have nothing going for themself. In my opinion, I would just step up to the nice woman and conversate with her, you cant be shy doing it through. I mean you can, but be confident about it. Just be yourself and and everything will fall into its place. I dont care if looks do matter or not or the certain traits, I would just take that risk and approach that girl. If you know what your looking for, you must have a go-getta attitude and when the time is right, it will be right and your heart will rejoice. I believe you will find that one for you, just have to be patient. By doing this, that woman will come to you. The main key is being confident and have your heart in the right place. If you have many things going for you and that girl see it, in time, the woman will appreciate it. If you know you have potential and she doesnt see it, then its her lost. I hope this was helpful and I hope you find that one. Keep your head up and many God Bless you.

Answer 2

Ok, well, i am the type of girl that like guys with the looks, most girls do. But, the only problem is that wen sum1 likes sum1, there is always sumthin about that person that attracts them that u cant explain. I say jus b urself, but if urself is not like "good" then u might want to reconsider acting mor mature, nicer, or watever the problem is. The only advice i can giv u is that u need to b cute, nice, funny, smart, and just a well-rounded guy. There r different types of girls that like certain type of men and so u just hav to find the rite one that likes who u r.

Answer 3

ok, first off, you need to get some friends who are good with women. You will soon realize that looks don't matter as much as we think they do.
Don't get me wrong, you have to have style, be well groomed, and maintained(ie. brushed teeth, combed hair, clean fingernails, and very important nice shoes) But what you cant help(ie. big nose, freckles, ect) dont worry about that. YOU CANT CHANGE IT. Besides a lot of women will think they are cute. You just have to realize what you have is what you have and come to accept it. Once you do that, you will get confidence which is the ultimate aphrodisiac.

So really it is how you communicate with a women more than what you look like. If you are nervous, twitchy, sweaty palmy hands, you are probably not going to get very far. You have to trigger a womans attraction. Remember, women aren't attracted to wusses. They are attracted to men, so act like one.

Answer 4

For as many girls as there are in the world, there are "types" that they like. But every person on the planet, barring a minority, like to be paid attention to.

If you like a girl, listen to everything she says. Remember little things she says to you and make little jokes about things you've both laughed at in the past. Learn about her. Find out what she likes, what her favourite things are. Share the things you have in common and agree to disagree on the things you don't.

If nothing else, that'll get you a good friend. :)

Answer 5

Be original. I know of some guys who pass out applications for a girlfriend. That way you can get what you want. Plus interviews can be supper cool. Who knows you might get two or three who agree with the arraingments...

Answer 6

be ur self and make ur self known w/o getting out of character.
and yeah looks might have something to do w/ it, i mean u don't have to look drop dead gorgeous to get a girl, i mean a girl really doesn't want an ugly guy and she doesn't want a guy w/ no since of style.
well jus to be short adn sweet be ur self.

Answer 7

depends on the girl man... just find a girl that u find interesting... cuz first of all you need to know what you want in a girl... then when you find one that fits you start talking to her and see if she really is what you want... and make her see that u wud make a good couple w her

Answer 8

ok yeah looks do matter to some gurls but not all of them ... for sum thats just a plus.... a guy has to be able to make her laugh and have a good time with her.... he also has to make alot of time to either be wit her or talk to her on the phone.. .gurls like to feel like they are protected ..so to be alittle rebel or have a bad boy side of you sumtimes is another plus... but its all in age...being able to afford her good gifts for all the special occasions is another plus because gurls aint all about having fake in their fingers..ohh and one more thing BE URSELF.. because a proven fact is that gurls dont like to have fact diamonds like i alredy said... but either to have fact guys by their side GOOD LUCK

Answer 9

i will be your girlfriend!!!! jk.

you have to be cute, nice, and caring. you have to be charming at the same time. you have to be sweet. but you have to know how to take charge at the same time as letting the girl do what she wants. looks definitly count. make sure you dress nice. and make sure you have personal hygene!! you also have to know how to appreciate her impefectious quirks. lol.

Answer 10

the way my boyfriend asked me out was that he asked for my number and i gave it to him but he never called and everytime i thought of him calling me i always thought he was just goin to b a total jerk to me but when he finally called me i was kinda upset when he did (not upset cuz he called something else w/ family) and i told him wat was goin on and he said ''if it makes u feel better i still love you'' and after that we started dating and weve been together since.