we been goin out for a month. and he doesnt seem to have time for me. he talks to me like once a week. and he tells me he wants me to comuicate with him. he wants me to love him, wants me to be there for him but how am i gona do dat if we talk once a week not even for an hour. and i really like him i really wanna get to know him cuz i feel that we can work things out and have a really good relationship, but how am i gonna do that. he is a really sweet guy in general and i just got outta bad relatonship and i told him dat he told me baby u dnt have to worry but its not any diffrent. it really isnt and i dont know what to do anymore should i give him anouther chance or shud i break up with him. and the works part is i cant even talk to him on the phone because his phone is turened of so he calls me on his friends phone. and he is never home or online and its really breaking my heart and ive been thinkin if i should break up with him. should i or jus give him another chance.
2007-03-24 10:09:51 · 13 answers · asked by gh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd break up with him... cuz by the sounds of it he's not into you. If he was he'd be calling all the time and trying to get together with you.
2007-03-24 10:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Super Babe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Jeez, you've only been going out for a month. Once a week is plenty in most cases. You're getting to know each other now.
Instead of being needy, try paying attention to how he treats you when you are together and treat him well too.
If I wanted to screen out needy, insecure women, I'd only call them once a week and see them once a week at most. And if they didn't hang, I'd know that was for the best.
2007-03-24 17:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give it some time, the relationship is just starting... but if u c that there just isnt any time for eachother, or he doesnt have time for u, then just break up cuz i mean ok he wants you to love him but u cant really do that if you rarely talk to him... make the effort to make him see that you really care about this relationship.. but if you dont see any effort from him then just put an end to this
2007-03-24 17:14:33 · answer #3 · answered by nickname 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't go any time for you he's just not treating right
you should talk to him and tell him how you feel
he must be a complete idiot if he only calls you once a week dats not what i call a bf!!
You should find sum 1 else dat treats you right
2007-03-24 17:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dear, don't think you have found the right guy yet.
He dun have time for you, dun have number for you to call, demand you to be there for him when he need/want...Wat do he think you are to him? A TV? A Hairdryer? Must be there when you need it but won't make a noise unless you use it.
Dear, move on. Get urself a bette man. Sure there would be more choices around you. Be nice, stay nice, pray sincerely..soon you will be rewarded be a nice guy of your life.
Cheer!
2007-03-24 17:19:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to be just be friends for a while, so you could see how you both get on, may be in your mind you moved to fast. since he has not called you, do not call him, find some new friends, and just have fun. enjoy life. learn to live a little!
2007-03-24 17:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was just in a simular situation and i broke up with him. I basically told him he was a pussy by forcing ME to break up with HIM and he admitted to it completely. Some guys just don't want to do the dirty work so they will push you till u do it yourself....even if they make it seem like they care so much about you. Sometimes this is their way of saying they want to be friends with you.... and don't want to lose it by breaking it off themselves
2007-03-24 17:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by julilah2005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
me myself i feel like you should leave his behind. because there are more fish in the sea and why waste your time on some one who seems to not want to be with you. you are better off being with your self for all that much.
2007-03-24 17:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by evettehughlett 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you really aren't attracted to this loser. you are attracted to the challenge he is giving you. you are probably used to guys wanting to hang out with you every second they have available. this guy doesnt do that so you like him because he is different, not necessarily what he does!
2007-03-24 17:14:41 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he doesnt have time for you now just imagin how little time he is gonna have for yu in the future
2007-03-24 17:13:48 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋