okay so i've kissed a guy before..but i've never made out.
and i need to know what to do because i think my boyfriend and i are going to.
2007-03-24 10:05:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
simple.
press your lips up to their lips, then open up your mouth slightly and let their tongue slide in and slide your tongue in their mouth but don't do it forcefully or messy. practice on your hand or something. also place your hands on his back or on his head and move them like they do in the movies.
2007-03-24 10:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know your or your bf's ages but just remember one thing - A KISS IS AN UPPER PERSUASION FOR A LOWER INVASION! Since you've already kissed him be prepared for more than that in a "make out" session which will probably include petting (touching places that aren't normally touched while just kissing either over clothing or beneath it). Hopefully, you'll already have an exit plan should things get too far out of hand. Don't forget how to say "NO" and mean it.
2007-03-24 19:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by lilbit48vmb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself never knew what was defined as making out, it's different for every person..
I always though of it as a kiss with a bit of tongue, and I have to say my first few made me feel all butterfly-like inside, but since then i've grown a lot more comfortable about them and now I'm not so shy
Me or my girlfriend generally start kissing a lot, just plain old kisses over and over, and i'll bump her lips inbetween one of the kisses with my tongue (and sometimes she does the same for me) and then after that kiss she'll stick her toungue out and we play with eachothers
sometimes it's just a little bit, sometimes we're odd and play around in many different ways
Not sure if that helped though..
2007-03-24 17:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by r0d3n7z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav kissed like 8 guyz and made out with like 3. Ok, well, i hav seen it SOOOOO many ****** times too. What i would do is jus follow what ur bf does. I wouldn't do tongue action if u r a begginer at makin out. Wat u can do is look it up on google, and there is this video on "how to kiss sum1 passionately", it really helps u understand how to do it. I never really actually saw all of it, but other ppl hav and they said that it really helps u. Make shur ur breathe is ok, even tho it is kinda hard to smell the person's breathe. Tilt ur head as he either comes to u or u come to him. Don't open ur mouth to big wen u first start, or he will hav ur spit all over him. And there has to b a rhythm to the kissing. make shur u look at that video, it helps. GOOD LUCK, and hope this advice helps u. If it doesn;'t work out too well, trust me u will get it. practice makes perfect.
2007-03-24 17:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay. well, it depends on how long you have been going out; It also depends if you are ready for it. If you are then it will come naturally.It is something that you will have to deal with on your own. Someone can't really tell you what to do in this situation. If you are as young as you sound, then you aren't really ready for it. You will probably end up breaking up with him in a week and regreting it. The first time I kissed a guy we had been dating for a year.
2007-03-24 17:11:42 · answer #5 · answered by beauty♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello Mellisa! There is not any written law that will tell what to do when u "make out". But one of the unwritten laws , i think, if i might say that is : be natural..and let it all come...natural. Don't plan things. Let him be the one that teaches you...live :). Good luck and remember..be natural and u will do the right thing at the right moment! :D
2007-03-24 17:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Rebel EXtravaganza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it run it's course. Definately, wing it, just as stated before. There is no way to prepare for it. When it happens, you will realize it is the best thing. Or can be the worst thing...I definately didn't prepare for a make out session...It just happened, and it was wonderful. :) Good luck!
2007-03-24 17:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by facetofacerules 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you know where the noses go, it'll work out fine. When it starts to work out "too well", how are you going to say "STOP"? You'd better plan that now, or prepare for more than you had in mind. Guys have ONLY one thing in mind. They usually only think with one head, and it ISN"T the one on their shoulders!
2007-03-24 17:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Curmudgeon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him. People always ask "how" to kiss. Just go with the flow. When he starts making out with you you'll know what to do. Plus there's not really a specific way to make out
2007-03-24 17:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy*Black*Chick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's really not a big deal at all- i promise!
don't even be nervous, just go with the flow! make slow spirals with ur tongue and have fun with it!
the first time i made out i was so nervous, but it turned out to be really great!
Good luck gurlie!
2007-03-24 17:11:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋