I've liked this girl (a LOT of details will be skewed for length) who was really shy, sweet and beautiful when I met her. After a while of us talking, she wasn't so shy anymore. She had told me at first she liked me, then later said she didn't like me. When I asked why not, she said she didn't know why. I made a mistake, I told a friend about how she told me (much later after the last statement) about her loving someone else (an entirely different guy) and not me to a friend and she found out and never talked to me again because I told him that. I didn't know I shouldn't have said that or I never would have. The boy that she talks to, the one she said she was falling in love with, (they never actually dated) doesn't treat her right. I noticed they'll walk into a room with only one seat left and he'll just take it, leaving her standing there. When he was trying to get her from me, he threw things at me and talked about wanting to fight me over her (I'd never fight over a girl)
2007-03-24 09:58:54 · 2 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(Unless it was to DEFEND her).. He's mean to her sometimes and I see her fussing at him about it. But he doesn't care. Later on they'll talk like nothing ever happened, the way we used to after something happened between us. I can tell he doesn't love her the way I do. I thought after 11 months of us not talking, she'd be willing to be friends again but she completely ignored me when I tried to talk to her. People told me she was being an immature jerk, the same thing I felt about the boy. they also tell me I'm a sweet person. Her sweetness is what caused me to love her, but now she's not so sweet (to me) anymore. The boy she talks to is a jerk. I wonder why she can't see that. I wonder if maybe she changed into a jerk, or was that always there and I never saw, or what could be wrong with me that she didn't tell me.
2007-03-24 10:04:21 · update #1
I'm not trying to talk to her anymore, I'm not doing anything for her birthday next week, I'm letting her go.
2007-03-24 10:09:09 · update #2