im 18 and she's 17 do u think i should wait or go ahead and ask??
2007-03-24 09:56:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, you both are so young.
Please, if you love her, let her live a life as a teenager first. Don't ruin it.
Ask her to marry you when you're 20. You need time and patience. Marraige is a pretty big deal.
2007-03-24 10:00:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both are very young. Marriage is not an easy thing...and where true love is i don t think a piece of paper matters that much. After one yr of relationship u can't be 100% sure she's the girl of your dreams.as a matter of fact u can never know....and yes i think only time will decide that. At ur age i think it's better for u to know each other better and live ur life like teenagers and not like teenagers playing the adult role because it's not easy and i don't think u can face this role.
A family is a very big responsibility and u might be overwhelmed by it's true meaning. And u also might scare her away and i don t think u want that. U could tell her how u feel and how u see the situation but don t rush things over. Live your life and remember every thing in life has it's on time.. make them when it's meant for them to be made and not earlier/later than it should.
Be careful and think twice before taking any decision and saying big words. Good luck.
2007-03-24 17:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rebel EXtravaganza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself First...WHY you want to get married at such a young age? You're only 18yrs old and she's only 17. You both have such a long road ahead of you in life. If you've only been together just over a year..I think it's too soon to ask her to marry you. I think her parents would agree also as she's not even an adult yet. Have you both talked about marriage or it's just how you're feeling towards her that you feel she's the one??
I seriously would reconsider...and wait another year before asking her to marry you* Alot can change between now and then. You don't want to jump into such a life long committment at such a young age. Does she want to go to college or university? what carreer does she plan on getting into.?? GoodLuck*
2007-03-24 17:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait,
you are both so young and the things you want will change. Ever heard the saying that high school sweethearts very seldom work out? Yea, Its because the things that we want change! As we get older, we get more of an understanding of what we like and dislike. So I would wait. Just being together one year doesn't make it right to marry someone. You guys are young and need to get through your college life before you start even thinking about marriage!
2007-03-24 17:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jeremy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young. Wait. It's been my experience that the first break up point for a longer relationship is about 18 months. At least wait that long. Statistically, the younger you are when you get married, the higher the probability of divorce.
2007-03-24 17:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by peanut g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being still a teenager, I would wait a couple more years maybe until you're in mid-twenties to ask. I know that waiting that long is devastating, but you don't want your love to be wrecked because of an early marriage.
Just consider the circumstances and possibilities.
2007-03-24 17:00:23 · answer #6 · answered by Excal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to say no, don't ask her. Instead, ask yourself if you're ready as a couple to financially support yourselves. What are your plans for school? Do you have a good job? What happens if she gets pregnant, etc. Getting married isn't all about the romance. Discuss where the relationship is going, and assess from there.
2007-03-24 17:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Principessa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are still so young i will say that you should really wait sometimes people think that marrige will keep someone around for a life time but thats not true give this realtionship time learn lher a little more befor you pop the question
2007-03-24 17:02:14 · answer #8 · answered by pictureme27pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,
I do think that you should let her know how you feel and what you intentions are!
Make a game plan, set yourselves up to provide a good life for one another. Then in a few years, tie the knot.
Use your head...
Be truthful
2007-03-24 17:02:43 · answer #9 · answered by and,or,nand,nor 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur really young, i think that if u both love each other u should be able to wait until u can really provide for her! u have ur whole life ahead, don't rush into anything!
2007-03-24 16:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋