me and my girlfriend are on a break till next weekend because we argue a lot. Apparently im to controlling cos i get annoyed when she goes out on a friday and saturday, and doesnt invite me out. then we she has nothing planned im expected to just go round there. So she is also controlling and when she doesnt get her own way she has a hissy fit and threatens to end it with me and then i always back down. I can see she is not good for me but I love her so much I just don't have a clue what to do. I really dont want it to end though. Any opinions welcome ......
2007-03-24 09:43:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get a back bone bro,she'll be the one backing off!
2007-03-24 09:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you like to argue with each other. if not...start communicating and figure out a way to solve your issues before you argue.
Don't assume that you have to be together every weekend just because you are a couple.
If you have other plans...let each other know. If she wants to spend time with you...she should make plans in advance...you have a life outside of the relationship, too.
If she's threatening to end it with you...call her bluff and end it first...don't be such a wussy.......there are other girls out there and she seems to be treating you like a dog on a leash. Relationships AREN'T about one person being in control all the time and the other following orders.....
2007-03-24 16:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by coastybear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a relationship takes two people and if both people aren't willing to put forth an effort to make the relationship last then it won't be a very strong relationship...however taking a break could have been very smart, hopefully she'll realize that things weren't working and that something needs to change and she'll try to fix that, but on the flip side of that there are 2 sides to every story so make sure that you're doing what you can to help as well! good luck!
2007-03-24 16:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Leannedrufy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Derek sounds like she is using you when she is bored. Don't be used. There are more girls out there that would love to date a guy that respects them. You need to end this relationship now because it is unhealthy and it will cause lots of problems down the line.
2007-03-24 16:52:05 · answer #4 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, this is a power struggle, but a disguised one. People control other people as it makes them feel empowered. My first tip is communication, if it fails, one of you have to back down and play a second fiddle for the rest of the life.
2007-03-24 16:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by Vicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are both being selfish and using each other. If she doesn't get what she wants and threatens to break up with you, she's being selfish. And it's selfish of you to get mad at her for going out without you. I think you should take a break from each other at the very least. She doesn't sound like good news to me. Don't let someone play games with you
2007-03-27 16:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u had a lucky escape sounds like she is not the one for u maybe ask and find out if she feels the same as u or u could just move on
2007-03-24 19:12:55 · answer #7 · answered by peachyrebecca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a stand. End It. She'll come running. Tarts always do!
2007-03-24 17:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her, shes perfect for you. wen she gos out on fridaiis and saturdaiis, yes ull get annoyed, but dnt show it. if hse is free go round. u love her.u want to c her right?! do anyfin to get her!
2007-03-24 16:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use this week wisely to enable you to clear your head,and take it from there Good luck
2007-03-24 16:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by RAINBOW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋