Makes comments about how heavy I am(I'm 7.5monthspregnant)how I look like a pig(he's always had a huge beer belly by the way)Then gets mad that I don't come on to him ..that I don't want to have sex.I don't feel very attracted after being talked to likethat..I also don't feel very close or turned on by someone who talks to me that way.Why does he thinks this is o.k.?
2007-03-24 09:41:55 · 12 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He talks to you like this because you ALLOW him too. Stand up for yourself. You are 7 and a half months pregnant!! You don't have to put up with any of his crap! Now or ever! If you don't make some adjustment to his attitude NOW, it's only gonna get harder after the baby comes.
2007-03-24 09:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a pig himself!!! He is just trying to take the attention off of his belly! Dont listen to the porker. Your pregnant and beautiful. I felt the same way when I was pregnant. Then right before I had my son I told everyone where to stick it which basically in nice terms was right under their curly tails. If you know what I mean! LOL. Tell him what you think give him some of that pregnant woman attitude!!!!!
Trust me he will stop!
2007-03-24 16:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel. He should know that just because he wants sex doe not mean you have to. I understand what you mean by not feeling like having sex with him after he cut you down. Ask him if he would like to be told the things he is saying to you and then you come on to him for sex and get mad at him if he does not want to.
2007-03-24 16:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by tamreye1959 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a typical guy! Don't let him talk to you that way, you are carrying his child and he should be pampering you. Tell him how you feel and that he needs to grow up and take care of you the way he needs to. He needs to take care of you completely which includes emotionally.
Make sure that when you talk to him that you pat is beer belly and ask him when he's due!
2007-03-24 16:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because for some reason it sound like you let him talk to you that way. and that's not nice to say to a to any women for that matter. the fact that you are having hi baby he shouldn't talk to you that way. you know what it could he his not happy with him self .something he feel is wrong with him. that's way he says those thing to you tell him to take a good look at him .self before he talk about any one. your his wife you have a baby for god sake. it's know that some men get jealous when there is a child coming they get no attention. he need to act like a real man and stop acting like a**. girl let him know don't play that game with him. because he thinks it is okay and it not tell him.
2007-03-24 17:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by shyprincess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him that it's not OK? If so, you need to think about whether this is the guy you want helping to raise the child.
But, most guys don't realize that women think of sex as an emotional thing also. If they are constantly putting you down, or doing something to upset you, you aren't going to want sex. Guys want it no matter what, they don't really need the emotional attachment that we want with it.
2007-03-24 16:53:20 · answer #6 · answered by justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would think that these idiots would learn wouldn't you?? I guess you have to teach him that you get more flies with honey than vinegar. . He sounds very immature to me. He is just too stupid to realise that he is hurting you more than he knows..Keep your cool, soon you will have your figure back..then you can give him some of his own medicine. Show him how it feels..
2007-03-24 16:50:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stick around and tolerate it your letting him know its ok.sounds like hes a pig.Honey from one woman to another actions speak louder than words and since you telling him how much this hurts you and he keeps doing it then its time for you to take action.
2007-03-24 16:48:48 · answer #8 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's most likely joking, but chances are he doesn't have any clue it makes u feel bad! sit him down and tell him that he's really not helping the whole "baby" situation! tell him that he's being really insensitive to how ur feeling and u would appreciate it if he would lay off!
PS be sure to tell him about his beer belly lol! give him a nice pat on it and say how wonderfully squishy it is lol!
2007-03-24 16:48:06 · answer #9 · answered by Lollipop 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hang in there girl. you have an enitre resistance movement behind you. we are your strength.
i've no qualifications to advise you, but i would still tell you to make yourself heard... to everyone who needs to hear it.
be strong. viva la resistance!
2007-03-24 22:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Rooster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋