the guy i like and i just had a fight. we both like eachother and want to go out with eachother but we're both way too stubborn to ask one another but we both want it to happen. what should i do?
2007-03-24 09:28:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him & ask him out. Make the first move. Do not b stubborn.
2007-03-24 09:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by Blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know for sure that the other one is wanting to talk to you. You may be right though about both of you liking each other (did he say so?). It could seem that way but really, expect the worse. Negative I know, but that's how it is. Ask him does he like you, then if he says yes ask him out.
2007-03-24 11:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itz either one of u 2 stubborn ppl get the nerve 2 ask each other out or u could ask sum1 2 do it 4 u.
2007-03-24 09:35:01 · answer #3 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work it out. It isn't your job to ask him out. The old fashioned way is that the guy asks the girl. If he is man enough to ask you that'd be great. If he doesn't do anything about it, maybe he's not the guy for you. If he likes you enough to do it, he'll do it. But do let him know that you are interested so he'd go do it.
2007-03-24 09:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a girl doesn't suck, just ask him out already.
It could be as simple as, hey there is this resturant I really like to try, but I have no one to go with.
Or you can just say it, I like you and I think you might like me, do you want to go out sometime.
However, if you keep doing nothing, then you will never get a chance to see if you could have gone out with him.
2007-03-24 09:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by Quest4questions 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out! If u both really like each other than you shouldn't be afraid (or stubborn) to ask one or the other out!!!
2007-03-24 10:03:04 · answer #6 · answered by MissD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just look at it as you leading the relationship in the direction that you want. it's not about who is right or wrong. it's about who is able to move things forward. just take a deep breather, and call/email/talk your choice. but, go back and say hey wanna hang out? just casual. you will break his defenses because i'm sure he is not expecting that from you, you will surprise him which everyone likes (when it's a good surprise i mean), but most of all, you will see that girls really rule if they know how to do things. if you pull, he will pull in the next direction. if you push, you will send him further away. if you gently and with lots of love and cheer and kindness guide, he will be blown away by you even more so.
who cares if you are the one that is right. is it more important for you to win, or to have him? we know that 9 out of 10, we are right, that is a fact. but they don't know that. so let him take the win. you argue, let him win. you will be saving yourself a ton of negative feelings. you will have a happy bo, who 'thinks' he is right, you will have the guy...
just pretty yourself up and go for it...i do it all the time with my bo...and trust me, he is very intelligent in his field of work, but he is as dumb as a block when it comes to backing off. so i learned to go in the other direction...instead of fighting it out, i just say you know what honey, you are right...and i am really nice to him and like magic..problem gone...
girls rule...but you got to rule with a strategy well thought out...
hope you hook up soon!
2007-03-24 09:39:05 · answer #7 · answered by la21unica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two subborn hard headed people will never be compatible with each other. So you may want to think about it before you ask him out if you are. If you seriously like his guy ask him out!
2007-03-24 09:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look u don't have to say"wanna go on a date with me?'' all u do is ask him if the bouth of you can hang out together
2007-03-24 09:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by trendysuzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does this have to do with being a girl sucks? anyways stop being stubborn!
2007-03-24 09:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Zorro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋