I've been having lots of little problems with my boyfriend. they seem like nothing but they all add up to something. he lives in the US and I live in the UK, he calls me at 4am to talk, most of the time I talk to him for an hour or two then, but lately I've been tired, so I say i wanna sleep (I have only said this 3 times). now he says he's going to stop calling at night at all, even at normal times because there is no point. he didn't call or answer his phone yesturday, and today he is being funny with me. what should i do? i know it's his problem, but still i want things to be nice
2007-03-24 09:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by sleepyme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Distance relationship are very hard to maintain, it takes extra effort from both of you for it lead somewhere seriuos, you have to think if it is worth it!
2007-03-24 09:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by Zorro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a long distance relationship with my boyfriend too. He does sorta the same thing with me. He acts like I don't have my own schedule and stuff to do and that everything should revolve around him ven when he's not here. This causes problems in our relationship too. You just have to let him know that you enjoy talking to him but maybe he could find a time that is right for both of you. I kept hinting with my man and it didn't work so I finally was just straight with him. Good luck!
2007-03-24 16:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he should be able to understand where you are coming from because it's 4 AM!! That's when people sleep. He should know that.
Say it's sweet that he's calling, but you also need to sleep.
Try compromising on a good time to call each other... preferably when neither one of you are supposed to be asleep.
He may have taken the whole calling thing too far. Just tell him how ya feel.
2007-03-24 16:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to stay local. He's stubborn and does not deserve your love if he acts that way. He has to appreciate you and think in favor of you. Juts stop calling him and if he still likes/loves you he will call. If not move on and you will be happier.
2007-03-24 16:32:43 · answer #4 · answered by destined_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you expect to maintain a good relationship if you live in two different countries?
2007-03-24 16:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend closer to home.
2007-03-24 16:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by century22minuteman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't he call earlier?
Just call him and tell him you need to sort that problem out and arange some kinda schedule ... that way he can call you at an "apropiate" time ..
2007-03-24 16:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by Person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How'd you get a boyfriend all the way over there? o.O
2007-03-24 16:30:04 · answer #8 · answered by cоlоя yоuя шояlD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly do u mean by "being funny"?
2007-03-24 16:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by puppypal710 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋