Should I try to get her back???

Question

Okay, well...i was dumped Thursday the 22nd by my girlfriend, or now ex. She said the reason being we moved too fast into the relationship. We talked a week and a half after she got out of a 2 year relationship and then after that week and a half, i asked her out. She said yes. It's been 3 months. All of the time I would tell her how happy i was being with her and she would say the same thing how happy she was. Another reason she said is she lost interest in me a few weeks ago. It wasnt even two weeks ago she said she was so glad she's with me. Now I'm confused. I dont know if I should continue on or try getting back with her. She said she's sorry and doesnt feel the same way. But is there a way to change that also??? If you can, help me perhaps.

Answer 1

If I was in the situation, I would not get back with the woman. Your best thing you can do is move on to better. If she just got out of a 2 yr relationship, then you started to talk to her about a week and half later. She might just needed some comfort, not a relationship. If someone or anytime that there in a relationship for a long period of time or especially in a marriage, it will take time for some to bounce back up into a new relationship. But on a positive tip, it will be best to move on with your life and find a woman that will appreciate the good person that you are, just keep your head up and everything will fall into its place. God Bless

Answer 2

I wouldn't try. If you do get her back, you may end up trying to hard and that will just push her away more. I know this sux to hear but it sounds like maybe you were just rebound to her. If you weren't dating that long it won't be too hard to move on. Maybe if you act like you could care less she'll want you more. For some reason, people tend to want what they can't have....Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Sorry but I think you were her rebound guy. I would move on.