is it normal to have a little crush on a VERY older man?? like a teacher, for instance. please explain y i feel this way!
2007-03-24 09:20:34 · 11 answers · asked by KATE M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It can be because you could connect VERY well. What is the age difference? If it is over 8 years i would just let him go...but thats just me...
2007-03-24 09:25:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the old crush on the teacher days! Sure its normal and anyone saying its not, to me is well, odd. Even if it’s not a teacher, it could be an Uncle or Aunt too. I don't know how many kids I remember growing up that didn't have a crush on someone in authority or was related to them. Of course the "not" normal thing was to actually chase after them. Why do you feel this way you ask? Not sure. Sometimes it’s something about the person. Maybe the way they speak, act or, dress. I know when I was in the second grade I had a "crush" on my teacher because she had perfume on all the time. I think that did it for me. When I was older like 14 or, 15 I found another teacher I had a crush on because she just carried herself like "a women". Of course there were "girls" in class but, I suddenly realized there was a difference between girls and women. So, I guess it depends on the person (You in this case) what - As they say - "Whatever turns you on"
2007-03-24 09:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by Michael z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...this is normal. Especially if you are a teenage girl. We all do it - just don't act on it. Older men seem sexy, worldy wise and responsible, which can be a big attraction to a young woman. Particularly if the girl's father is not active in her life.
2007-03-24 09:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Clarissa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes no1 can tell u what ur heart feels like when u pass by a person u relly like its natural to have ur heart beat faster though u dont want it 2 so it could be the case here even if u deny it
2007-03-24 09:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by xfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's normal....when you're young..and a "teacher" for instance...is really nice, good looking, funny, caring etc...in your eyes..your heart goes pitter patter when you see that person etc..........It's nothing other than a "crush" and yes it's normal and will pass*
2007-03-24 09:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh yeah it's normal, people are the most sexual creatures on the planet, so put that into terms.
2007-03-24 09:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, very normal..
And...
Very normal for young girls to marry much older men...
2007-03-24 09:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal, but don't act on it. You can cause serious trouble for that man.
2007-03-24 09:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it is normal. everyone is always attracted to someone older in their life because they are more mature and are established in their life...
2007-03-24 09:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by beauty♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it's normal...don't let people tell you how you should feel :)
2007-03-28 03:32:43 · answer #10 · answered by Peter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋