relationship help?

Question

Now i know its not a big thing but me and my bf have been dating for 5 months...and i really wanna see him not everyday but like spend most of my tiem with him because i love being around him and he makes me feel really good...but im scared he might get sick of me....and i defintley dont want that too happen...help!

Answer 1

He's not your husband, so don't push too hard. Just take it easy.

Answer 2

My first thought for you is don't rush it......let the relationship flow like the river...yes there will be times it becomes rocky but it always have to narrow a bit to flow into the ocean. The main thing here is to not make him feel he has to make a choice between you and his normal life. He has to come to the thought on his own that he wants to spend friday night with you instead of the boys. Now if he comes to you and says I am going out with the guys he is unconsciously testing you....say ok have fun and deal with it. Make sure every time you and he are together you are having fun. If the relationship becomes stressfull or he is feeling pressured he will run. Men are slow in this area but only because they feel they are loosing their freedom. Which they are (shhhh I did not say that) but they want it to come on their time. The more you say come here the more he won't want to come. Let him do the leading he is the man. Eventually it will come a time that won't have the urge to say come here because naturaly he will look at you as a part of him and he won't want to not include you. Stay firm hun you are doing right, dont chase let him chase you.

Answer 3

It's perfectly normal to want to be around someone more, because you love them. That's what love does. The more time you spend together, the better you will know who they are. Best way to find out, is tell him how you feel about him, that 'you love being around him', that he makes you feel good. sometimes you have to spell things out for guys. You never know, he might not have a clue........

It's best to find out how he really feels about being around you, than worrying about what he might think about you, or do. You WANT to know how he feels about you...... Don't you ?? It's best to be yourself and go after what you want, so you know for SURE what a guy is really like.- than to dream about it, and spend your time imagining what it would be like "IF".

If it turns out you were right, and he acts like he doesn't want to be around you or is "sick of you" as you put it, you don't want to be around someone that is like that, do you?. Just find someone one who DOES, Someone who loves you the same way, will WANT to spend alot of time with you, for the same reason. Because they love being around YOU, because they like the way being with you, makes them feel, too.

Time and your life is precious, and you are just as important as any one else. I would find out, before I lost any more sleep not knowing for sure. I would rather take a risk of being disappointed and hurt, and know the truth, for sure, than have to wonder all the time. How much fun is that?? Atleast then you would know......