I always get in love with the ones who are not interested on me. I am alone. I am not ugly, I am pretty nice, and very clever also. So what is wrong with me???
2007-03-24 09:16:28 · 9 answers · asked by timisoreanca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As a guy with the same attributes as you describe (single, clever, not ugly, nice), I can't say too much, as I'm still single. However, there's something I know single people don't notice that is a huge turn off, and I just pray that I'm not guilty of it. And that is, they give off a Desperate Vibe. Trust me, guys can smell it a mile away. And unless they're just after a vulnerable vixen, which is not what you want anyway, they won't give that Desperate girl a second thought. So what you have to do is know what you want but act like you don't want anything. Confidence is everything.
2007-03-24 09:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Justin E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you don't quite know what you are looking for in a guy? What qualities are you looking for?
I can tell you I met my husband through common activities. We both Dive. We started talking and found we had many other things in common........the rest is history.
I think that you aren't getting the results you want because you are trying too hard AND you don't really know what you are looking for.
If you still can't find someone....use match.com and BE HONEST!!! One of my former supervisor's met his wife on that site.
If you are younger than 25...don't worry about it! I didn't meet my hubby till I was 27...he was 29!! It is better to be alone than to be with just anybody. Get comfortable with yourself, first!!!
2007-03-24 16:27:05 · answer #2 · answered by coastybear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with any of us...although we aren't all perfect...but remember love is a hard thing to find. But listen...dont look for it...LET IT FIND YOU! otherwise you will be feeling like you are now. I'm still single and have been since 2005. And I can say that i'm so happy alone, because i know that somewhere out there is the perfect guy for me....and i'm going to wait till he finds me!
2007-03-24 16:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica Meganâ?¢ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys who you are with just don't want a long term relationship.Nothing that you can do about that. Just keep being yourself and you will meet lots of nice people. Eventually you will meet someone who is into you and who is open to a serious relationship.
2007-03-24 16:21:06 · answer #4 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hard to find the right one, you will find someone who interested in you back it just takes time
2007-03-24 16:22:12 · answer #5 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu worry to much... just enjoy being single and the right person will come....
2007-03-24 16:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing at all hun,mr right just hasn't come along yet hang in there
2007-03-24 16:20:59 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they just do not know you
2007-03-24 16:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk, some details maybe helpful.
2007-03-24 16:19:39 · answer #9 · answered by mary m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋