im fourteen almost fifteen. I entered school early and am a year ahead of everyone else so ive always hung out with older people. all my best freinds are sixteen and seventeen.
so its natural to me that my boyfreind is 17 too. i get decent grades and although i wear alot of black , am respectful and follow the rules.after dating guys for a while, i met my boyfreind josh. He lives 2 towns over, works, has a GED (he was smart and homeschooled) and religious. Hes a good boy and hes amazing. He might be the love of my life becuase our family always falls in love early, our grandparents met at our age.
But in may hell be eighteen, and ill be 15.
my dad says that on his birthday if he hears anything about him , or sees him, hes going to get a restraining order.
i dont know what ill do without him.
how can i convince my parents to let us see each other.
were good together.
we dont have sex.
we dont do drugs.
and we drive the speed limit.
what do i do?
2007-03-24 09:08:00 · 7 answers · asked by kick.azz.emo.girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When I was 15 I dated a 23 year old for a little bit. Our friends and parents all disagreed so we eventually split up, even though we cared about eachother. Your parents just want whats best for you, so you need to make them see that what's best for you is being with your bf.
2007-03-24 09:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by prettynpink0491 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to get frantic. Three years will soon not only be nothing , but perfect. Realize , he is not the problem, it's you. 14 , like Juliet. I understand that your feelings are real.
Your parents want to protect you from yourself.
Many don't let their daughters date until 16 or more.
I can tell you what my friend Ivan did. When he was 14 , he met the love of his life who was 12. When he asked her out , her parents went ballistic. They were not permitted to see each other and spent the next year peeking at each other.
When Ivan could no longer take it , he asked for a meeting with her parents and made a proposal. He told them that he had trouble eating and sleeping and she no better.
He wanted to marry her when he would be 19 and she 17, with their permission. He would date her with a chaperon only and obey any restrictions they would impose and that he would always respect her. Just please allow us to see each other.
At first Ivan would come to the house and they would be left in a room together, door open and in a short time her older sister would accompany them to the movies , eventually they double dated . Soon they were smooching in the movies . After a while , people stopped watching them.
When he was 17 , he enlisted to fight in Viet Nam. That was 1964. Ivan and Lucy were married when he was on leave. they had two children and remained married until his death three years ago.
Theres was a love. Only patience and capitulation won them the day.
I hope this helps!
2007-03-24 16:28:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just give up on the relationship. Lmao, sorry but you even sound just really really young even though you are. I think you have alot of growing up to do and just maybe be associates. And you listing all the good things you do and bad things you don't is good. But that's the way it suppose to be anyway, your parents did a good job so far raising you so take their advice and be a good kid and don't see this guy anymore. I don't see anything wrong with maybe socializing every now and then. Sorry sweetie but he needs to find somebody his age.
2007-03-24 16:18:04 · answer #3 · answered by misscancer10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, parents know better. I know you don't like to read this , because that is not what you want, but, trust me, they know what is best for you. This guy , even if he is adorable and cute and all that, he is going to want to go out with a girl his age range. You can't get in club or drink or do the things when he turn 18 he is going to want to do, so he will probably end up dumping you any ways. So face it, enjoy your age, your time to have fun with young kids your same age. Do things appropriate for your age , there is time for everything. When the time is right you will find someone who will enjoy doing things with you , who you will be compatible with. I'm a young mom , I've been there , I've done that. You will not regret doing this for your parents and for yourself. Good luck! D.G.
2007-03-24 16:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents are just trying to protect you!! you need to listen to them and when you have children of your own you will understand that you only want what is best for them. You don't want them to be hurt in anyway. If the two of you are really in love he will understand, and when you are a bit older you two can get back together, but for now this is just the way it may have to be. sorry!
2007-03-24 16:15:35 · answer #5 · answered by mommy of 3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your dad is probably 3 or more years older than your mom. tell your parents that it would be like not allowing your parents to marry each other ,they might give in. But if they don't give in ,tell them all of the similarities between you and him.
2007-03-24 16:18:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kels M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and reason with your father, he cannot condone your relationship now, and for months and then let 1 day make a difference to how he feels about it, so its his birthday, he will only be one day older, not a whole year. that is a ridiculous argument-tho i wouldnt tell your dad that, be mature & calm about it, with a little thought he may change his mind, good luck to you
2007-03-24 16:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋