hi im 17,and go to High School,theres a girl i like at school,and im planning on telling her ,what i feel about her,and if the girls tell me if this is good that'll be good,and if i need more tips i would like to know those tips,i need,so im plannig to tell her after the movie is over in the theaters.this is how im going to say it,"Glady's can i tell you something,"shell say yeah,"since the first day i started talking to you,i wanted to tell you how beautiful you are,everyday i would be happy to go to school just so i would see u,sometimes at lunch i would look at you,but i would turn away because you wouldp probably thin i was stalking you,but the truth was that i was looking at you,because your beutiful,and i want to tell you that i like you alot glady's,and i wanted to ask you if,youll be my Girlfriend",and is she say yes,whats the next move i make,thats where im stuck,if you girls can tell me if this is good,and maybe something that i forgot that'll be good thanks alot.
2007-03-24 09:00:12 · 15 answers · asked by ChargersV#89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awww you r the sweetest guy ever! that speech is so romantic and if she reacts the way i did you'll be in there! haha
ok so here's what you do, if she says yeah (which she will after that speech) you look her in the eye and smile, at this point you could add a little "woo" to make her laugh and give her a hug, or she goes to kiss u even better. after take her hand and walk out together, but don't stop looking at her and smileing, that will make her feel special and that your feelings are genuine.
Good Luck, tell us how it goes!
2007-03-24 09:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if this helps any. Girls are the hardest things to try and figure out. As much as you think you know what's going to happen we tend to change it up at the very last second. My advice to you is be as honest as you can be. Never hold anything back. If you have something on your chest that you need to talk about, just do it. Because us girls already know what you are going to say or do. We're a funny that way. You will always always win with honesty as you grow older you will find out that it feels much better to tell somebody what you are feeling rather than holding all that stress in. Do not practice what you are going to say or do that night at the movies, whats every in your heart to say, let it out and mean it. Look her in the eyes and tell her, and after you are done telling her how you feel about her, take her in your arms and hug her. If she excepts your offer to your feelings she will kiss you. High School is one of the craziest times in our life. Here's the deal, say whats in you heart and if she says no, you really did not miss a thing. At least you told her now you can move on and feel better that you tried. Honesty Honesty Honesty, that is the true way to our hearts, after that then start with the romantic side of things. Good Luck, just let things take place how they may and don't hold back.
2007-03-24 16:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good but kinda corny!! dont let out ALL your feelings(like about staring at her in the lunch room!!(creepy/romantic)!lol! Maybe start out "Did u have a good time" then "I enjoy hanging out with a beautiful girl like you" then be quiet! don't try to hard because girls can sense stuff like that! I mean I always know when a guys tryin to talk to me but he's nervous! I usually just tell them to relax! guys sometimes worry to much about what to say and how to say it, when the whole time the girl felt the same way and was just witing for him to make the first move. Girls don't usually make the first move because guys are hard to read because they hang around so many girls, u don't know how they really feel!! during the date just give her your undivided attention when she talks! and compliment her not a lot just occasionally. RELAX...REALLY!
2007-03-24 16:13:20 · answer #3 · answered by kk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not the right approach. You show a girl you like her; you don't tell her until you get to know her much better. Start a conversation about school, music, friends, anything. Talk to her everyday. Then ask her if she would like to go to a game or a movie with you. It has to be gradual or she will be turned off when you come on too strong and suddenly.
2007-03-24 16:05:41 · answer #4 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then you're gonna keep your cool, and ask her out for a romantic evening. Do not, I repeat do not throw yourself at her. When she says yes to go out, you will make reservations to a place you both have never been before. Always keep eye contact and when she laughs and asks you what you're looking at, you'll tell her "I'm looking at your beautiful smile. " The rest is up to you. Just don't maul her with kisses. Let her give you the body language.
2007-03-24 16:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by PR_Princess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Look dude, do not break your head over this.
This is real simple. Is okay to express your self to her but DO NOT over do it. Just let her know that you been having your eyes on her since the 1st time u seen her and that you look forward to coming to school just to get a chance to see her pretty smile/face...
Well how many times have you been out with her that you want her to be your girl friend?
Get her to like you 1st b4 you ask the question honey.
Ask her on another date.
Well if you do decide to pop the question and she says yes, just ask her if is okay to kiss her.
Trust me you'll know what to do once is happening.
Do not be nervous
2007-03-24 16:09:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jo,jo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That sounds perfect. But let me ask you a question: Do you really know her? Have you guys ever had conversations? If you don't know her, but you want to date her, you might be surprised how the relationship will turn out. Get to know her better before jumping into it. Luck!
2007-03-24 16:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by calmangel4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats so sweet. I think you shouldnt over think everything so much. Do whatever feels natural at that moment. Whether it's a kiss or you just want to hold her in your arms. Everything will be just fine, just relax and let things flow naturally.
2007-03-24 16:13:57 · answer #8 · answered by Leslie Kirsten 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, Dude. It would help to learn to spell better, to use punctuation and paragraphs. At 17, you should do better than what you written here.
Girls like guys that are educated and show it.
2007-03-24 16:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by expatmt 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok look that is good but the part when u said sometimes at launch until but the truth is do not that cuz then she'll think u are crazy so why don't u go ahead an try it don't 4get dso not say that just add sumthin else u think she might like.
2007-03-24 16:09:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋