because I'm talking to a 19 yr old and i really like hI'm i told hI'm im 16 but im really 13 and he says he likes me but he only seen my picture what should i do? also my mom doe sent want me to talk to him because supply she said that he just wants sex but i dint think so?
2007-03-24 08:58:04 · 14 answers · asked by jovanna R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, listen to your mom! She loves you and knows best! This boy is nothing other than a pervert. Normal, testosterone filled teenage boys do not like young girls, especially when they have ONLY seen a picture of theirs. A person's liking someone cannot solely be based on a picture. Unless you want to get yourself in an irreversible mess, I suggest completely ending your communicating with him.
2007-03-25 09:51:34 · answer #1 · answered by ItsScriptural 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you are starting off by lying. This is wrong. He is too old for you, he only wants to use you for sex, and since you are not legally of age to consent to having sex with anyone; he will be a criminal.
Your Mom is one hundred percent correct, you need to be concentrating on your schoolwork and forget about this 19 year old. He would be considered to be a child molester.
Most young guys do not know how to behave in a respectful manner, and want to have sex with any girl of any age. It would be considered to be rape until you are and adult, which is the age of eighteen or even twenty-one in some states.
Please stay away from this person, he is bad news.
2007-03-25 15:06:58 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a scenerio for you. My brother was 18 years old and this girl did the same exact thing to him. He started to like her and had sex with her, about six months later when they weren't even seeing eachother anymore, he got locked up, she was 14 and her parents were the ones pressing charges. Do you really think this is gonna work. Be smart, tell him something came up and you can't see him any more. There are plenty of guys in your age frame to use and abuse. don't hurt this guys future. That is a big lie. be careful, and good luck
2007-03-24 09:55:05 · answer #3 · answered by PR_Princess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 13. You should not be focusing on guys, but things like getting good grades in school. But I'll tell you the truth, you need to tell him your real age. If he still likes you, which I doubt, then have fun. I also think that your mum is right, because that's the main thing guys want from girls S-E-X.
2007-03-24 09:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by calmangel4all 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it feels super awesome when a guy is interested in you. But you told him a lie because you knew he probably wouldn't like to know your real age. Listen to your mom. They are usually right. but you should try guys who are just a bit younger than 19. You are probably just starting high school and the guy is finished already. You are on different areas in life. There will be other guys - believe me.
2007-03-24 09:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by Molpatrol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ha, I'm 13 too. Don't do it, all he does want is sex, especially if you said you are 16 since that's the legal age. (at least in my state) But yeah, besides think about it, he's legally an adult. I mean, gross adults are old and saggy.
Find people your own age, they're more fun.
=D
2007-03-24 09:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica Danielle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy, leave him alone. What you are doing is illegal for him because you are under the age of 16. He can get arrested. Your mother is right. You are too young for this man.
2007-03-24 09:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to listen to your mom, she is right, he is too old for you, you need to be concentrating on school, You are going to have plenty of time for guy's. You do not need to be lying about your age, this is something that could get you and him in trouble. Don;t try and grow up too soon.
2007-03-24 09:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow my friend did the same exact thing you did when she was 13 also. when she finaly met him he still believed that she was sixteen and they ended up going way farther then they should have (shes not pregnant but she shouldn have done any of it). now her mom almost doesnt trust her at all. i think you should tell him your really thirteen because if you dont...it might lead to something very very bad.
2007-03-24 09:04:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all you lied to him, so how much do you care about him if you have to lie about something like that. second your mom has every right to be worried. do you even know this guy?
she may be right, alot of people just want to have sex not a relationship.
2007-03-24 09:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by tinkbostwick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋