there is this girl i love very much!!! i haven't told her about my feelings yet... but i am sure she also loves me... we both went on our fourth date on 17th march... we had a lovely time... she had not told her parents about it... she had said that she was going out with friends... in the evening, when we were coming back home, her mom called on her mobile and she rejected the call and switched off the mobile... then her mom called on my mobile and i said that i was with my mom and her mom said that she wanted to talk to my mom... i disconnected the call and switched off the mobile... after that i had been messaging her and have received no reply... its been over a week now and i feel like crying!!! what do u think is the matter with her??? has her mom found out??? i love her more than my life!!! please help or else i will die!!!
2007-03-24 08:55:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we both r 17... i called her but her sister picked up the phone... her mom knows about me but i do not know why she is against even our friendship... she says that we both can't be even frnds!!! and i am not allowed in her house... if i ever went there, her mom will simply kill HER and will ask me to leave immediately!!! have asked her a lot of times if there is some prob!!! i got no reply...
2007-03-24 09:05:48 · update #1
thats true that by telling her mom everything, she will respect me but that way i will lose her and that i do not want... what will i do of respect??? i badly want her... pls help ...
2007-03-24 09:11:03 · update #2
aww. that's so sad. but you need to toughen up. next time you see her, pull her aside and talk to her. if the problem is that her mom found out about you two then call her parents and have a serious conversation. if that still doesnt work then show them how much you love their daughter.
2007-03-24 09:01:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers know when their children lie. You should have both told the truth. She probably knew when you both disconnected the call. It would have been a big hint to me had I been her mother and you disconnected her when I asked to speak to your mother and the phone goes dead and you shut the phone off. You should have told the truth.
You should now apologize to her mother for lying. Be the big man and apologize for lying and tell her you should not have went out with her without asking and then apologize for lying.
She may still not let you talk to her daughter and her daughter may still be grounded, but she may respect you more for telling the truth.
Learn your lesson? Never lie. Always tell the truth because when you don't, the truth will always come back to bite you in the butt..........
2007-03-24 16:02:46 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the girl what happened. If she is in trouble with her mom, talk to her mom. That way, things will clear up. Also, you might want to tell your parents what happened.
2007-03-24 15:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Karma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could say yall dont know each other well enough to be in love but I cant. love doesnt have a time limit. she could very possibly just be really busy. call her instead of texting her. try her house. maybe her cell got turned off.
2007-03-24 15:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you dint tell us your age and second you have to remember "what a tangled web we weave when we practice to deceive" the truth will always be found out.You both need to be honest or it will never work out!
2007-03-24 16:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by courious,one 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give me more information or I can't help. Why don't her parents want you two together? If her parents don't know about you then how did her mom have your number?
2007-03-24 15:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously you're leaving some information out in this question. Why would you parents reject your dating? How old are you two?
2007-03-24 15:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by trikelkelley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just get over her its best because women with crazy parents are the ones you want to avoid!
2007-03-24 16:01:28 · answer #8 · answered by hl2cjm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You worried little chump....she is trying 2 keep it on the DL so her mom won't find out....she still cares about you just be patient...Happy Flirtin'....
2007-03-24 16:02:04 · answer #9 · answered by Bizee B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her mom...if this mother respects her daughter she will let her love who she wants to love. that's it, end of story, goodbye. (sorry that was FREAKY)
2007-03-24 15:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥αηηα♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋