my best friend and i really like this same guy but he doesnt like her he likes me (supposedly).I'm really scared they'll get back together . they already went out.im scared she will get him i really need help!! this is my first post thx!! <3<3<3 XxXxX
2007-03-24 08:48:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im sorry you might hate me for this.
But if shes your friend, you shouldnt be going after someone she dated, especially if she still likes him.
Boys will come and go, friends stay a whole lot longer. Take a bullet and leave him alone.
2007-03-24 08:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I don't think you should go for him. I guess you are in your teen years and I would highly reccomend that you date someone that your (close) friend haven't date. It's weird in a way that you're getting your friend's left over. Plus, sometimes it causes bad friendship. A guy is hard to get, but a good friend is hard to keep. Plus, if she still likes the guy, you guys would probably have issues with eachother if you2 were dating. You're still young and there are many guys out there. Lastly, I would say date him if you REALLY, REALLY, REALLY like him. But remember there's the friendship issue. Play hard to get; don't give in too quickly if you do decide to date him. If he's worth it, he will do whatever it is to have you as his girl :) Hope this helps.
2007-03-24 16:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by destined_luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats exactly like me but my problem is that my best friend got jelous wen we were going to meet up and now she is going out with him even though he said that he wanted things to happen between me and him !! I'm so upset =[ .. GO FOR IT! get him.. don't let him go before it's too late hun xx
2007-03-24 15:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to a friend of mine. Her friend dated the guy she liked, and they ended up breaking up and he asked my friend out. She went out with him, with her friend's approval. Ask your friend how she feels about you dating her ex. After all, she DID date him while you liked him, and it seems like her allowing you to date him would only be fair.
2007-03-24 15:53:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If yall were really good friends, you wouldnt be fighting over a guy or even competing for his affection. if he likes you then he will be with you. if he was lying, then he will go back to her. Dont lose your friendship over a guy
2007-03-24 15:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK what you need to ask yourself is..." who do i like better, my best friend or this guy?"
because if you go out with him, she's not going to be your friend anymore.
its really stupid/selfish to do that to ur bff and you'll regret it.
so my advice is foreget about the guy and have u and ur bff make a pact to forget him and it will be good times!!
remember: chicks before d!cks!
2007-03-24 15:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by encantame. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything to your friend over a guy its not worth losing a friend ask the guy face to face and see what he says and go from there.good luck
2007-03-24 15:55:51 · answer #7 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww. well. i wouldnt want to risk a good friendship... but if you really really like this guy and your sure that he likes you (and hes perfect for you and hot ect ect. lol), then i say go for it! it sounds like you really like this guy (awww). and just dont regret it if your friend gets mad at you. i hope that doesnt happen. so hopefully things work out...good luck :)
2007-03-24 15:54:54 · answer #8 · answered by Minor Bunny Engine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she says u cant go out with him it is like she is saying u cant be happy. look deep down into your self and see if u r willing to give up ur friendship for him.
â£GOOD LUCKâ£
2007-03-24 15:59:39 · answer #9 · answered by xogirly g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, and you think it. Make a move. Talk to your friend if you have to, but don't let him get away. Call the guy and talk to him in confidence.
2007-03-24 15:53:38 · answer #10 · answered by 80srock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋