"Some times I can't conrol, and I dont know if I hurt her feelings at the end"
2007-03-24 08:47:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Exactly what is it you can't control? It is so much easier for a man to reach the main goal in sex, so unless you are selfish which I do not think you are you will have to be patient on your own to ensure she enjoys it as much as you do. Yes that means she is first. If she does not enjoy she will eventually become resentful and not want it. I mean why should she she does not enjoy it. As for what women like during sex that is to hard to explain because not all women are alike. When you start to be intimate next time go into with the mind frame you are there for her, for her pleasure. Give her a massage make her comfortable. Caress her body like it is art and you are finaly able to touch it for the first time. While you are exploring her body with your fingers, lips and tongue, listen to her breathing and moaning. If she flinches or just lays there then you know it is doing nothing for her but if her body starts to react in a pleasurable way then you have found a spot. Now don't stop just at that one place because she has many more that you need to find. Have her talk to you and tell you if she likes that by saying Ohh yeah!! I can tell you from experience read up on it.....my b/f reads on different things on how to touch me and some of it he would have never found if it was not written because he found places I did not even know I had. Oh and one more thing.....if you do take her over the edge and she is very pleased she won't mind you snuggling up behind her and going to sleep because she will be to exhausted herself to want to have that intimate talk.
2007-03-24 09:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. very confusing. I like dirty talk, but only in the bedroom otherwise I feel insulted if it's normal conversation. I also enjoy being held tightly, it makes the sex or love making more passionate feeling.
2007-03-24 08:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you doing to hurt her feelings?
Depending on the girl...you have to ASK her to find out what she likes. Look at her body language and listen to her moans. The more you talk, the more you'll find out about her and can please her.
2007-03-24 08:52:38 · answer #3 · answered by qtpie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i like when guys use vibrators on me or i like going doggy style
2007-03-24 08:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pleasure her first, make her orgasm 1st, hug at the end for 10 mins......sorted.
2007-03-24 08:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋