Ok,I worked with this girl 8 years ago and we had a brief fling that lasted about 2 weeks.We continued hanging out for a few months until she moved away to be with another guy.We spent a lot of time together,but I always knew she wasn't interested me anymore.I kept trying to make it happen but it didn't.I haven't had a relationship since then (yes,sad...I'm really shy) and I think I've gotten into a big rut.She never really had feelings for me,and I know this,but I still carry some emotions from this disaster.I haven't talked to her in years but I keep searching her name and I found her email address.Part of me wants to contact her,but part of me thinks I'm crazy and she'll be freaked out.How do I let this go? I feel so ashamed but I can't help it.I feel like if I just saw her and talked to her one last time,and asked the questions I should have long ago,I can move on.
2007-03-24 08:32:08 · 5 answers · asked by AntoineW 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Update:I gave in and emailed her yesterday.She replied back this morning and gave me her cell phone #....I'm gonna call her tonight!
2007-03-26 08:50:49 · update #1
Move on anyway. It was what it was, and it is no more. I think about the really good short relationships I had, but I'm still looking to move on.
2007-03-24 08:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you haven't let go after 8 years, I don't think tracking her down and "asking the question" is going to do any good. Besides, if she wanted to get in touch with you, I'm sure she would have. You need to get beyond this. Have you considered counseling? You might be putting this relationship on a pedestal that just doesn't exist. She couldn't have been that perfect. Maybe you are just to lazy(or scared) to get out there and find a new person to fill the void.
2007-03-24 15:39:38 · answer #2 · answered by janice 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look dude, this is crazy and true. When some one does'nt want you we seem to want them even more. I say you get ahold of this chick and tell her how you feel. But don't let her know that she's been in your mind for all these years. "oh lord" 8 yrs and you been missing out on relationships! But anyways you'll feel better just knowing that you tried.
2007-03-24 15:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jo,jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail her---and she responds take it from there--if she does not respond---let go!
2007-03-24 15:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up and move on!!
2007-03-24 15:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by schzaree 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋