he says that i am a lame for not doing it. i am only 14 years old but i really like him. what should i do
2007-03-24 08:30:12 · 32 answers · asked by Gwen H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do it
if you smoke ur lungs will be destroy and you cant breaTH and die sooner
thats bad
so dont do it ur teeth will turn black and yellow thats digusting
you dont have to do it to ruin ur life theres more fish in the sea thats better
2007-03-24 08:35:09 · answer #1 · answered by Dianaaaaa♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever let anyone talk you into doing something that you don't want to do, especially when it comes to drinking & smoking. Doing those things at your age is NOT cool. If he really cared about you, he wouldn't ask you to do it. By calling you "lame" he is disrespecting you & you don't have to put up with that. Stand firm in your beliefs & do what's right, no matter how much you may like him or any guy in the future.
2007-03-24 08:52:14 · answer #2 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but your boyfriend is lame for not respecting your choice to not. Your boyfriend should be supportive of you. You don't need someone you can respect your values. Don't ever let a guy pressure you into something you don't feel comfortable with. What I think you should do is find another boyfriend, if he can't respect your wishes. What kind of boyfriend calls his girlfriend lame anyway?
2007-03-24 08:41:22 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have a long term plan for your life. Smoking and Drinking will only make you want to do other things too. Drugs and sex and other things will come with that territory. Don't let anyone force you to feel like you need to. He obviously does not love you if he's trying to get you to do stupid things.
He's probably trying to get you drunk so he can take advantage of you. I fell for that one a few times. Be smart, don't ever drink or smoke. It's so degrading and people like me think those people are stupid. No matter what age!
HE'S A JERK...RUN!!!
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2007-03-24 08:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... What the hell?
Why would he even care if you do it? Why does he even want you to? He IS aware of the nasty stuff that happens to your body when you do it, right?
So if I'm getting this straight, he wants you to become less attractive, he's revealing that he has self-esteem issues because he does it and YOU WILL MOST LIKELY NOT EVEN END UP STAYING WITH HIM FOR MORE THAN A FEW MONTHS.
You already know what's right.
Good luck,
Franklin
2007-03-24 08:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO dont do it I fell into that at your age and i was an alcholic until i was 21,you may love him but dont let him pressure you into anything.Like the saying goes what does love have to do with it.My advice is to get friends your own age who are into clean fun or you will end up hurting everyone you love.trust me been there done that.
2007-03-24 08:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by acr_lover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a stupid boyfriend.a supid child that houldnt even be doing that.if he REALLY liked you then he wouldnt make you do that or tell ou that you are lame for not doing it.he is nothing but trouble.DUMP HIM QUICK!!and get your self someone who really cares for you.what is he gonna tell you next have sex with him or else you are lame or he will leave you?stand up for your self and tell him no.be yourself. if you ever have a boyfriend that trys to make you do anything that you dont want to then leave his ***!you ar great just the way you are and shouldnt hae to change who you are
2007-03-24 08:37:13 · answer #7 · answered by cosmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, you are not lame Good for you girlfriend!!! He is the one who is a lame brain. Both can cause a world of hurt. Good luck sweetie
2007-03-24 08:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys come and go and most of the time we get so caught up with them we forget were we stand. my point is u decide what to do, if he keeps presuaring u about it leave him, don't follow him, follow urself. u probally do like him a lot but if ur happy with him even though u have to do what he does ur just going to end up hurt and betrayed. i been there trust me, hope that helps.
2007-03-24 08:35:33 · answer #9 · answered by jossy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no, he's a loser trying to confrom you to his ways, and it's not you. If you're hesitating, then it's not you. Say bye bye to that loser. Is he older than you or something? I'm guessing so. Older guys usually try to get younger girls to do what they want because they think you're weak and can be controlled. Show him you're strong, and tell him no.
2007-03-24 08:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Blaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋