i have brown hair with blonde streaks and blue eyes. most people say i am a beautiful child and have pretty eyes but i cant get a boyfriend or get asked out i am really nice but also shy and i am sweet,smart,active,
good at gymnastics,and i love dogs and horses. i have also never been asked for my number. i am easy to get along with but everytime i go out in public guys between 18-25 stare at me. i am only 12 years old and i have golden tan skin do u think something is wrong with me?
2007-03-24 08:19:57 · 30 answers · asked by Animallover13 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its just not about looks, well at least it shouldnt be and your still young you have time and i know you dont wanna hear it, but you just gotta wait to have someone who you flow with.. i haven't gotten asked my # by anyone but i do have a boyfriend and hes awesome...
2007-03-24 08:24:40 · answer #1 · answered by lillizzybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, first let me say you have many years to get the right things and be with the right people in your life time. And another this is that MEN 18-25 are MEN that should not even look at a 12 year old child. The term for you will be JAIL BAIT! Men that touch or talk to any child your a age is considered a child abuser, a child molester, a pedophile, or even rapist.
I am not saying that you shouldn't have a boy as a FRIEND, but that is only it and he must be your age! No one over the age of 14 should carry converstation with you unless it is family or some sort of authority.
I could only wonder what your parents may think if they found out that their little girl is interested in men that can spend a lifetime in jail, because they decided to talk or touch a 12 year old child.
When I was 12 boys weren't even on my mind...At that time school was my boyfriend. I can give you proof of the accomplishments I recieved from while in elementary school. (grades kindergarden through sixth).
I can go on day about my accomplishments as a child, but now that I am a grown woman (27 years old) and have the experience in dealing with children your age. You may the most prettiest girl in class, don't let that override the one thing that only you are in control of; your mind...
I hope that you read this in understand that we one, don't need any little girls lost in a world that a "do for self " type of world. Don't miss lead a stare from any man 14,15,16 and/or 17 (in most states) over is a crime committed against you no matter if you wanted it or not!
YOU ARE A CHILD...A BABY...LEARN WHAT LOVE IS...TALK TO YOUR PARENT(S)...DO NOT HURT YOURSELF...YOU ARE A ROSE...DON'T BREAK IT BEFORE YOU SEE OF BEAUTIFUL IT BLOOMS...
PEACE..
2007-03-24 08:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lotoya S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you really don't need a boyfriend! The key here is that you are a "beautiful Child" Child being the operative word here. Have fun as a kid an forget about the boys, you'll have plenty of time in the future for the games they play and the heartbreak they cause!
2007-03-24 08:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Foo Foo Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not a thing you just need to wait a few years,try not to grow up to fast,life is fast enough as it is,your time will come and you will have more guys than you can handle asking you out and for your number,but give it time.Those older guys looking at you now should be a shamed they wouldn't know how to treat a good girl if they had one,and they don't that is why they are looking,keep your distance from them.
2007-03-24 08:27:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 12 years old, so in my opinion, still too young to worry about having a boyfriend. Enjoy being young. Once you grow up, there will be plenty of other things to think about that you'll wonder why you even spent so much time worrying about boys.
2007-03-24 08:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Tutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you but at the age of 12 most boys and girls aren't thinking of dating yet. Also, they have not yet developed the courage it takes to start dating, give it time and as you and the boys out there grow-up things will change.
2007-03-24 08:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by willowlafaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST ME GiRL "iM 13" i JUST GOT OUT OF THAT STAGE LAST YEAR...THERE iS ABSOLUTELY NOTHiNG WRONG WiTH YOU...AND YOU HAVE BLOND STREAKS!!! i WANTED RED STREAKS BUT i HAVE THiS RARE iNDiAN LONG HAiR AND MY MOM WON'T LET ME GET ANY STREAKS...YOU'RE LUCKY!...TRUST ME GUYS ABSOLUTELY WiLL START GETTiNG ALL OVER YOU EiTHER THE END OF THiS YEAR OR NEXT YEAR... LOOK AT THE OTHER GiRLS THEY ARE ASKiNG OUT WHAT DO THEY HAVE THAT YOU DONT HAVE? iF THEY HAVE SOMETHiNG YOU DONT THEN MAKE SURE YOU GET iT!! LOL J/P :P...AND PLUS YOU'RE ONLY 12 YOU HAVE PLENTY OF TiME FOR ALL OF THAT. PLUS GUYS 18 AND OLDER (YOU MUST HAVE SOMTHiNG) LOL..BUT DONT TRUST THEM
2007-03-24 08:26:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing "wrong" with you is your only 12 years old. Wholly cow little girl, slow down...your time will come! Gee, ask your mom...guys your age haven't yet matured to the "sexual" part of life as you have. If you don't slow down...you'll end up in trouble!
2007-03-24 08:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well not many boys at age 12 are looking for a gf or have the balls to ask a girl out yet..it could be possible that you are so beautiful that guys your age are intimidated by you
im not sayin u should make yourself ugly..just sayin
2007-03-24 08:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...what's wrong with you is you're 12!!!!!! You don't need a boyfriend at 12 years old!! You've got years for this sweetie. Don't rush things.
2007-03-24 08:22:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ally O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhh...12? I'm twelve too. But I don't think you should start dating. Anyway, do whatever you want. If you want a bf, all you can do is just wait for a hottie to ask you. I think you're very pretty. prettier than me. i'm just a masculine featured chinese git...
2007-03-24 08:23:55 · answer #11 · answered by carol s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋