He says they are too small. So I go and get them "done" and he say's they are too BIG! I only went up 1 cup! What do I do? I love him so much... we are getting married next month!
2007-03-24 08:17:43 · 23 answers · asked by dogwalker178 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
call off the wedding.
if you both are this superficial your marriage will be a disaster
2007-03-24 08:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anthony M 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Is he marrying all of you or just your breasts? What if one day your breasts sag...or you gain weight...or anything else having to do with the superficiality of appearance? I think you need to think long and hard about marrying this person. Then think long and hard about accepting yourself and not changing things for someone else in order to feel loved.
2007-03-24 08:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't change your physical appearance if you don't personally want to. Why can't he accept you they way you are? Since you are getting married, if he really wants them changed, and you don't mind, you should ask him how he would like them as a honeymoon gift. But don't let him pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do. The knot has been tied yet...
2007-03-24 08:25:10 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make a dessert and use 1/2 cup of sugar, he'll think it's not sweet enough. You add another 1/2 cup and he'll think it's too sweet. If you wear a dress that goes half way down your thigs, he'll think it's too short. You wear one that goes to your knees he'll think it's too long. You'll never please this guy. If I were in your position, I'd tell him that his penis is too small and dump him.
2007-03-24 08:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by 5375 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you should never change yourself for a man, especially something as drastic as surgery. He sounds like an ***. Even if he didn't like them, he shouldn't have said anything...especially that you should have them done. What else or how else will he want you to "change". That sounds like the beginning of a troubled marriage. Run away.
2007-03-24 08:23:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lolly07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, i think small breasts are a turn on. Fake breasts are ok if you have had surgery and need enhancement, but never do it to please a man. Relationships come and go, and from the text of your question, its time for him to go. Find a real man..one who loves you for who you are.
2007-03-24 08:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by ob10830 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you so much he should respect you enough to accept you the way you are. Going through surgery to correct something for your mate is extreme and dangerous. So, I think that he should be able to love you for you and the way you are. Good luck.
2007-03-24 08:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are modifying your body for a man in your life? You ahve some serious self-esteem issues that you need to speak to a professional and resolve.
Dump the man and find one that loves you for who you are and how you look.
2007-03-24 08:21:25 · answer #8 · answered by khrome_wind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to do more loving and less talking. I wouldn't have even got them done if he wasn't a husband.
You sure you want a husband that wishy washy? He needs to love you for you, breasts and all.
2007-03-24 08:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he were in love with you he wouldn't be complaining about your body parts only praising them don't change your self for no one but you do what makes you feel good about yourself
2007-03-24 08:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by cherries_on_toppd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunnie, why are you getting married to someone who doesn't love you totally, fully, and without reserve??? Your breasts are not what makes you, you. You need to realize that and not accept anything less.
2007-03-24 08:20:57 · answer #11 · answered by uNrAveLeD 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋