My sister is the type of girl that thinks everything she does it "perfect" and never sees her own flaws. Lately, she has been very negative towards me and even my younger sister. She is the oldest, then is me and then is my younger sister. (22, 21 and 20 yrs old) She is always quick to point out our flaws and throw them in our faces yet, if we tell her something, she gets mad at us and criticizes us even more. What's her problem??? Is there anyway to stop her madness?
2007-03-24 08:11:21 · 8 answers · asked by Chiquita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I don't think there is a way to stop her madness
2007-03-24 11:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Heather M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just concentrate on your life
don't bother to poinjt our her flaws
and don't worry too much if she has to tell you yours
mainly you will get more out of trying to work on your
real flaws not worrying about what your sister says or does
2007-03-24 15:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Involve your parents, at least they know better than your sis.
They will be better judge and one more thing i'd like to say.
Look at the things from different angle maybe she herself knows her mistakes but doesn't want you to repeat them.
Try to understand her point of view first and if she is wrong, involve the parents.
At least, after their intervention she'll stop bullying you.
2007-03-24 15:24:08 · answer #3 · answered by sanjay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her not everybody is perfect and when you flaw and she criticizes you take it and don't say anything.
2007-03-24 15:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by Eldia L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to her SHUT UP, clearly you have been so busy pointing out our flaws, that you've forgotten about yours.
2007-03-24 15:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by PERLA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like she is jealous of the two of you!
Suggest she get therapy the next time she starts in on you and your sister!!
2007-03-24 15:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by suequek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be on the rag or something.. just dont talk to her or get near hear.. do more stuff with your other sister..and leave her out.. and she might notice that she was being a *****..but ya dont tell her crap.. and she might leave you alone..
2007-03-24 15:15:19 · answer #7 · answered by Yhpargotohp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her about her own flaws and see how she likes it.
2007-03-24 15:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by KATE M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋