HE CUSSES ME OUT ALWAYS.HE THREATENS TO KILL ME AND HE HITS ME .O YEA AND I AM 14 YEARS OLD .PLZ TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD DO.
2007-03-24 08:11:10 · 22 answers · asked by Gwen H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
End the relationship. He's hitting you. If he tries to hit you again, contact the police.
2007-03-24 08:14:46 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure how someone could love the person that's beating them 2 death. If u don't leave now, it will all come down 2 someones death, most likely your's. Y at the age of 14 r u allowing urself 2 b treated like that? Where r u parents? Do they have any idea of what ur involved in? How old is this kid that's doin' this 2 u? Both of u obviously have some serious issues. You, for allowing urself 2 get involved in this of kind of relationship (and the fact that ur willing 2 stay in it is even more disgusting) and him for thinking this is the way u treat a woman. (although you're hardly a woman..you're still a lil' girl) U need 2 leave him alone and worry about things like school or what ur gonna wear 2 so-n-so's party. Not if ur boyfriend is gonna kick the crap outta u!!
2007-03-24 15:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What 14. You r too young to b going throught htis. You have your whole life ahead of you and this guy isn't woth it, youre young so u r probably confused about what love is. Love is not a person that hurt you physically or emotionally. Leave him while u can, you don't love him youre probably just used to being with him @ 14 you don't want this come one stop playing urself, think about it, if he threatens what makes u think one day he might not kill u? open ur eyes.
2007-03-24 15:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel. this has never happened to me but i had a bf about a month ago he started treating me badly. he had a past of hitting girls but i didnt believe he would of done it to me. I didnt really care. He was very nice and charming for the first month but after a while he always screamed at me and got drunk and told me off about dumb things. Thank God he broke up with me because i would still be with him if not. Do yourself a favor.. break up with him. I know it will be hard but do it for yourself. If you dont feel like you can then i guess deal with it and one day u'll realize it was all a waste of time.
2007-03-24 17:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u serious. I guy who curses at you and threatens to kill u. Ask yourself. Why would u love someone like that. If you let a guy continue to hit you then, he will always do it until you end up dead maybe. You should be lookin for a man that actually loves you.
2007-03-24 15:16:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.
Do u really think u are worth this? Bullshit!
Leave him right NOW!
This guy is a sad excuse for a man. There is plenty of boys out their who will treat u right.
U dont love him, u are just scared to leave him. But once u do, u will realise that it was the best thing u ever did, and hopefuly this guy will realise what an ******** he was to u!
2007-03-24 15:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You tell your parents or the authorities. If he's hitting you, you should definitely fight back and protect yourself. If he's cussing you out and threatening you then you need to stop seeing him. You need to definitely get rid of this guy. He might go serious when he says he's gonna kill you.
2007-03-24 16:51:43 · answer #7 · answered by Regina Anneliese 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him girl. You dont have to put up with that type of behaviour, period!Your only 14 and really young to have a boyfriend, especially one that treats you with disrespect. I bet there are many other boys you could get to know. Dont stay with him, hes bad news!!
2007-03-24 15:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by Freckles2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. If he dosen't love you or treat you right then it's not true love it's just your imagination.Move on and you'll find a relationship with a guy that loves you for who you are and won't hit you OR THERETEN TO KILL YOU!!!!
2007-03-24 16:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by carlislebum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait til he goes to sleep and whip the crap out of him whip him like a yard dog tearing out the trash.........what is good for the goose is good for the gandar.....girl you better wake up you are way to young to be putting up with that crap....fight back if you dont you will always be subjected to abuse....show him you will not tolerate his abuse.....or tell an adult....seek professional help in the process......watch lifetime movie network some of those movies on there and see what happens to some of those true stories about girls and relationships gone bad with abusive boyfriends and lovers and husbands......take a good long hard look at what is becoming of your self letting someone who has degraded you to his level by abusing you dont put up with it.....whip him back....good luck
2007-03-24 15:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋