2007-03-24 08:04:39 · 3 answers · asked by catherine t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can honestly answer this one for you. I have been there, done that and had to get out.
At first things are all good for the both of you. You talk things out and discuss the things you would like to do. Then you try doing the things the other likes to see if its something you could really be interested in. Then he does the same thing for you and finds that he likes it more than you do and takes over a hobby or intrest of yours and makes it his life.
Then, you become resent full and aggrivated everytime you want to do something on your own and he/she wont let you because they like doing it also and feel that they should be allowed to do it with you because you are a couple.
Well then it really gets weird... you start seeing that the one you love or yourself is bipolar and have begun taking on the life of the one you are with. my case was, he was bipolar and started to become a woman. online and at home... took on more femenin traits and activities.
Makes you wonder now doesnt it???
Anyway, after 13 and a half years of being with this one person and finding that he wasnt what or who I really thought he was because of lies and dirty little things he would do behind my back, I LEFT and fast too.
So be careful friend and look behind each door...
I didnt.
2007-03-24 08:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that would be ridiculous, and somewhat boring. Arguing allows people to learn things about each other, they may not always agree on things, but they should be a ble to come to some resolution of the problem and be able to respect each others differences.
2007-03-24 15:12:00 · answer #2 · answered by Queen-o-the-Damned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that can be a good thing, but there will be a day when there is a disagreement it's ok.... no relationship is 100% perfect. anyway if there is a disagreement the makeup sex is great...
2007-03-24 15:11:18 · answer #3 · answered by ickybones2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋