Well i'm 16 and this guy is like in his late thirties and i seriously think hes coming onto me(i hope your gonna prove me wrong). This guy is like really evil to everyone and shouts at people for walking past his room (seriously) but he treats me so differently. When i first met him he'd just taken a photo of me and came up saying what a great picture it was and how great i looked, first i thought ok friendly guy, creepy, but ok. for the months after he kept staring and giving eye contact in the halls then i had to go into his room for something with another member of staff who i was helping, it turned out he needing something doing and he said 'fancy a job mary' and winked (SOMEBODY EXPLAIN WHAT THAT MEANT). i refused. then he went back to staring and then one day he came up to me and started going on about how i've seen his nice side and how nice he is to me. after that a member of staff who was presnt said hes only nice to me. ewww. so am i reading to much into things or not?
2007-03-24 08:04:06 · 2 answers · asked by Mary L 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Maybe he likes you as a person, he thinks you're a hard working student. Or it could be that you remind him of himself as a student in some way. Anyway, he shouldn't show favoritism, I'd fire him if I was his boss.
Or maybe he really, really hates you, and is just pretending to be nice so that the other students gang up on you. It could be a psychological plan. Teachers like to tease students and play with their minds. (I was a teacher once, you wouldn't want to know what goes on in the staff room... it's a conspiracy, a big mind game)
The fancy a job usually means, would you like to have a job. It's usually pretty innocent, but in context...
Explain to his boss that it's making you uncomfortable. Seriously, you shouldn't have to put up with that, him being nice to you. Demand he shouts at you like he does everyone else. If nothing else, that's sexism, he should be nice to at least one male student as well.
2007-03-24 08:19:04 · answer #1 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not reading too much into it. Tell your parents or your school counselor or a teacher or some other adult you trust that want him to leave you alone. There was a creepy teacher at my old middle school and he eventually "retired."
2007-03-24 08:13:39 · answer #2 · answered by SP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋