i called my first love, because i dream about him, what do i do to make these dreams stop?

Question

he was the first everything for me except virginity, im married but there is a side of me that will always miss him and always love him. this guy was perfect to me and the way he made me feel was priceless. i called him and told him i dream about him. and then he told me he regretted not sleeping with me 7 years ago i have no idea what that meant, i told him he was the only guy i actually tried to sleep with. someone help me

Answer 1

Aw, that's cute. And I'm not the sentimental type. I just called my ex-fiancee from 5 freaking years ago, and we were reminiscing. But, you know, that's perfectly normal, and there's parts of me that will always remember each one of my boyfriends, whether it was a night or year. Look at your current marriage and see why you married that guy, and HONESTLY ask yourself, could I really spend my life with my first love if I never was with anyone afterwards? Good luck ~N