we were not toghtere that long but we both felt verry happy and confertable togthere she said we were in to differnt spots in out life now that is true to a point i gyess i just want to know is i shpuld wait for her to be ready she said she was nready for a new realationship cause she was hurt so badly in her last which ended a few years ago now she does have a greay caree and i am just starting one we are the same age any one with some insyight
2007-03-24 07:49:49 · 7 answers · asked by scott l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't put your life on hold in hopes that she will come back. Go on about your life. Focus on your other relationships and advancing in your career. Find other things to occupy your time, you won't notice that she's gone. If she decides to come back and you haven't found anyone else, pursue it if you want. Just don't sit around waiting for her. Don't put off dating hoping she comes back, if she doesn't, you'll be upset with yourself for allowing someone else to subtly control you
2007-03-24 07:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dont be the nice guy. Give her time. Stop emailing, stop calling, stop everything. When a girl says she needs time she wants to be left alone. And when she comes around be a friend and dont overly mention the time in between. Good luck
2007-03-24 14:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give her sometime to come around of the ghosts of past relationship...she did the right thing on putting things to hold before she can move on with u....coz she need to be out of her previous relationship in totality before she can commit herself to anyone else....stick around for sometime and again ask her whether she would like to continue or not and if she says no then move on with ur life.....but try keep some patience!!
2007-03-24 14:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's making an excuse. She does not dig you enough, so she's not worth it. Date some more girls and find out, you won't know who or what you're missing if you wait for something that might never happen.
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2007-03-24 14:57:24 · answer #4 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said that because she does not want to continue the relationship and it is not that you're not a wonderful person, you're just not right for her. Find someone else to date. She will never be ready for you.
2007-03-24 14:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by kadel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she need more time then leave her alone. dont be a stocker.
2007-03-24 14:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by PHATChik1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes should, to respect her decision
2007-03-24 14:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by Daniella D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋