I am bi, but have always leaned towards straight. I have been going out with this girl for about 3 years, and I really love her, but I don't feel much sexual attraction to her. Does this mean I don't love her? Should I just stop this relationship now?
2007-03-24 07:45:25 · 6 answers · asked by John L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you love her just not sexually attracted but maybe thats a good thing if your not i mean unless your a kind of person who would cheat in order to get sex then break it off but if you would never cheat on her maybe one day you will get that attraction you need but dont ruin a relationship over something like sex
2007-03-24 07:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by love_lost 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you thought mabey you lean a bit more the other way? Your attracted to her intellectually not physically. Sounds like she is more your best friend then a possible mate. If your not sexually attracted to her then you probably should break it off and save the friendship the best you can because she obviously means a lot to you, because if you stay with her knowing that she doesn't appeal to you in that department it's only going to cause you to eventually cheat on her and hurt her anyway so why cause someone you love more pain that you can avoid? Yes, it's going to hurt her when you break up with her but you need to do some serious soul searching within yourself. Try like hell to keep her friendship it sounds like you love her a lot. I hope that helped you in anyway.
T.
2007-03-24 14:57:09 · answer #2 · answered by ThePleasurePlayground.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone without having sexual attraction towards them but, in her case you need to let her know how you feel. Don't stop the relationship set down and talk to her about it first, she might beable to help.
2007-03-24 14:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by felletio24 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be you do not need the pressure of a relationship right now, you just need to be with friends, so you can find out where your head is at. This is what you need to keep your own sanity!
2007-03-24 14:49:58 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All what matters is love.Rest will follow.You still love her and wanna keep your relationship with her.
2007-03-24 15:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think so......sexual attraction n interest varies from person to person....
..do u feel attracted to other girls?? if so move on
2007-03-24 15:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by Alzin Dorain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋